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While it is painful to even think about, you’ve started to have this nagging suspicion in the back of your mind that your husband may be cheating on you with an escort in Southport . Whether he heads out late at night to run ambiguous errands, comes back home and immediately heads to the shower, or returns home appearing to have already showered at a different location — these are the signs that led you to believe your husband may be engaging in extramarital infidelity with a Southport escort.

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What is important to know with this type of activity, in general, is that seeing an escort agency in Southport is not usually one of the first steps of extramarital infidelity. If your husband has been, in fact, seeing an escort — there is a good chance that he has a history of unfaithfulness to one degree or another. As an example, before man would visit a local Southport escort, it is likely that he has a history, generally a long history, with pornography in general. In addition to viewing pornography, there is also the chance that these men have used various websites, such as married but looking websites, adult chat rooms, escort websites, and so forth, before they have actually met up with an escort agency in Southport .

However, because men who visit Southport escort agencies oftentimes have a long history of deviance from their marital vows, online infidelity investigation services can help to uncover both the types of websites that your husband has visited as well as potentially catching them trying to solicit an escort.

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Swinging has become more popular than ever in recent years thanks to technology and the internet. The days of placing ads in magazines or attending shady "key parties" are long gone! Most swingers- who are often called lifestyle members or members of the swinging lifestyle- typically meet one another online, in swingers clubs, on swingers cruises or at swinger parties.

1. Finding other swingers online is one of the easiest ways to find new friends and partners. Couples and singles can place ads on various "dating" websites that are geared toward people in the swinging lifestyle. Single males often have more trouble making connections with couples than single females do simply because there are more unattached males in the swinging lifestyle than unattached females.

2. Various swingers clubs are located in most large cities. They're usually similar to traditional night clubs, but there's a twist- people attending these clubs are swingers or interested in trying out the swinging lifestyle. Some clubs are simply a meeting place where swingers can dance, drink and have fun while others offer on-site play rooms for consenting adults.

3. Swingers cruises are often arranged by travel agencies specializing in alternative lifestyles. These cruises may consist of a large group of lifestyle members that wish to take a vacation together and meet new swingers, or a "takeover" in which the entire cruise ship is reserved for lifestyle members. Some swingers reserve spots on these cruises with people they already know and others take the trip in hopes of meeting new people.

4. Swinger parties are often held at clubs, but they can also be held in private homes or at hotels. Parties are a good way for swingers to connect with others and have fun. Some of these parties involve sexual activity while others are costume parties or themed parties.

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The pelvic floor is a large hammock or sling of muscles stretching from side to side across the floor of the pelvis in both women and men. It is attached to the pubic bone in front, and to the tail end of the spine behind. The openings from the bladder, the bowels and, for women, the vagina, all pass through this hammock.

The correct anatomical name for these muscles are the pubococcygeus muscles, but nowadays they are more commonly called the pc muscles, or even more commonly, the pelvic floor muscles.

Sometimes they are referred to as a single muscle, but it is more actually more accurate to talk of them in the plural, as there are a number of muscle groups that together make up this muscle sling.

Many women are aware that they should exercise these muscles but very few do it regularly and successfully. Most women who have had children will have been advised on the importance of pelvic floor exercise to restore muscle tone after childbirth, and muscle strengthening was identified as an appropriate treatment for stress urinary incontinence back in the 1950s.

It was during the development of an exercise program for urinary incontinence that an interesting side effect was observed by Dr Arnold Kegel, the originator of these exercises. He claimed that women doing his exercises were finding it easier to reach more frequent and more intense orgasms.

To understand why, consider what happens in your body when you experience an orgasm:

  • Your heart pumps faster and your breathing gets heavier to fuel those tensing muscles.
  • Hormones are pumped round your brain and body, telling you this is enjoyable.
  • Blood is pumped to your genitals to create the tension that will ultimately trigger a pudendal reflex (muscular spasm of the genitals).
  • That reflex will result in your pelvic floor muscles contracting between five and 15 times at 0.8-second intervals, which is what we know as orgasm.

So when you consider that the essential experience of orgasm is focused on the pelvic floor muscles, it isn't surprising that exercising and strengthening those muscles might make for more and better orgasms.

The association between strong pelvic muscles and improved sexual response and pleasure, led sex therapists to recommend pelvic floor exercises (or kegel exercises as they are known in the US) to clients, and earned them yet another name: "the love muscle".

So how do these exercises help to increase sexual pleasure?

  • The pelvic floor muscles are directly responsible for the amount of sensation you feel during intercourse, and for the amount of grip felt by your partner. So although an exercise regime for these muscles has the same physiological benefits as exercising any other muscle, the spin-offs are much better.
  • Exercise improves muscle tone which means that the muscle is tighter, so is stretched more by an erect penis.
  • Strong, firm muscles have more nerve endings, and more nerve endings mean more sensations for you during sex.
  • Exercise improves circulation, and this is particular important for the smaller muscles of the pelvic floor, which are responsible for engorging the clitoris when you are aroused.
  • Rhythmic contractions of these muscles contribute to arousal and to many women's ability to achieve orgasm. Many women report they are able to reach orgasm more easily, and that their orgasms are more powerful, after a pelvic exercise program.

So why wait to start exercising? It takes approximately 12 weeks of regular exercise to make a real difference, so start now, and within three months, a better sex life could be yours!

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Many swinging couples prefer to attend private house parties rather than going to a swinger club for their swinging experience. For each couple the reasons will be different, but here are a couple of benefits that private parties provide that swinger clubs do not:

  • By attending a private house party, it can offer a more discreet and relaxing environment for you and your partner to enjoy with other swinging couples. Because it is a more intimate setting than a swinger club, there will be fewer people, increasing your chances of meeting some really great people.
  • Many swinger club owners and staff are extremely busy and distracted during parties, especially during the weekends. If you do not know anyone else there, and you ask them to introduce you to other guests they may agree to do it, but this doesn't happen all the time. With so many people attending the club, their main focus is to make sure the club continues to run smoothly, so they might not take the time away from their busy schedule to introduce you. Private party hosts will always be happy to introduce you to other guests attending their party. Because the party is being held in a smaller and more intimate environment, they have the time and ability to make sure their main focus is for you to feel welcomed and comfortable. They want you to have an incredible night or else they would not have invited you in the first place!
  • One of the most common complaints swingers have about going to swinger clubs is the inability to really socialize with other swingers because the music is so loud. Because there are so many people, any request from a guest to lower the volume would not make a difference and would most likely be ignored. At a private party the volume of the music is considerably lower allowing couples to socialize more. If guests feel the music is too loud, the host will be much more responsive to any requests they make to turn it down.
  • The large amount of smoke in the club can also be very frustrating and uncomfortable for non-smokers. Most couples who host private parties in their homes either don't allow smoking inside the house at all, or they will have designated areas for smoking. For the most part, smoking is only done outside, usually by the pool or hot tub area.
  • To attend a private house party there will either be a minimal cost to enter or it will be free of charge. There are also no membership costs required in order to be admitted into a house party like a swinger club would require.
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Many people like the thought of hosting a swingers party. They can be great fun and the pace where many fantasies are acted out. But how do you actually go about putting one together? Here are a few tips that will make the event easier and guaranteed fun:

  1. Decide how many people you want to be there. Do you want it to be a large party or an intimate gathering? Do you want it to be just for couples or do you want to invite single people (men and/or women) as well?

  2. Find a venue. Most people would think of their home, but it needn't be the only place to host a party. If your place isn't suitable, large enough, etc you could ask one of the other guests if they would be willing to host it. A hotel room is a good choice if the numbers aren't going to be too great, but another alternative is a local swingers club. You could arrange for your group to all meet there.

  3. Find your guests. Unless you already know a lot of swingers, by far the easiest way to find your guests is online. Set up a profile on a swingers website such as Kasidie.com and list your event there. Then you can begin to contact other couples in your area who you think might be suitable.

  4. Insist on meeting everyone first. If your party is couples only you will be amazed how many single men will try to get an invitation by masquerading as a couple online. When they arrive at the party they will make an excuse for being alone such as "the wife is sick". Insist you meet the couple first, or at least talk to them on the phone - both of them - to ensure they're for real and who they say they are.

  5. Charge something. A small charge, paid to you in advance, is a great way to ensure people actually show up, as well as helping towards your hosting costs.

  6. Have condoms and lube available. It is normal for the host to provide these, although you can ask people also to bring their own.

  7. Have fun! Obviously this is the point of the party in the first place. However, to achieve this the most important thing to communicate to your guests is that no one is under any pressure to participate or do anything they are not totally comfortable with. Even if you have met the guests beforehand there is no guarantee people will click in a way that makes them want to take things to a sexual level.

Hosting a swingers party does take a bit of effort and time to organise but the results can be well worth it. Even if it doesn't turn into an all-out orgy you may still make some new friends. There are many more people wanting to attend a party than are willing to organise one so your efforts will be well appreciated.


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