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Over the past few years, adult modeling has become a very popular choice for girls – 18 and older – aspiring to break into the modeling industry and “become a pornstar in Cheshire” as some may say. One of the main reasons for this is due to the money that can be made. It is true that these models can earn a lot of money without being over 5’10” and weighing 110 pounds, but having the right look, and making the right decisions in regards to a career path can make a huge difference between being just another face in the adult modeling crowd in Cheshire, or standing out and being a shining star.

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First off, it’s important for an aspiring model to understand exactly what this type of modeling is. Simply put, Cheshire adult modeling involves posing in at least lingerie, but more often than not it involves posing topless or full nude, and even some times with graphic sexual content – known as hardcore escort modeling. While topless modeling can pay the bills with the proper set of physical gifts, it usually takes a willingness to pose full nude for a model to see any positive effects on her bank account. And then of course there is hardcore modeling which is most prominent in the adult modeling and entertainment industry in Cheshire.

An escort agency in Cheshire also gives the model a degree of respectability in the industry. They will negotiate on her behalf with photographers, producers and other adult content distributors who wish to hire her, and they will make sure all contracts are legit.

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All of us who have struggled with sexual addictions have had to face the reality of lost innocence. Whether we're recovering from addiction to pornography or other forms of sexual compulsion, a big part of recovery is facing the need to 'unlearn' our behavior. Maybe you need to quit so you can be truly intimate with your spouse, or just so you can confidently look yourself and others in the eye. Whatever the reason, until we can get all those terrible tempting thoughts under control, we will not be free of our sexual addictions. By understanding the sex drugs, getting sexual addiction help, and 'reprogramming' our sex drive, we can make great progress toward recovered innocence.

Sexual Addictions Are Drug Addictions: Porn and sex addictions are probably the most difficult addictions known to mankind, or womankind, for that matter. This is because sexual addiction is drug addiction, but the drugs are free and available any time and anywhere. All you have to do is think sexual thoughts and the sex drugs begin to flow, driving you toward a climactic release of chemicals into the blood stream. Our bodies manufacture these drugs so we'll want to reproduce. Under natural circumstances, there is nothing wrong with this drive or these chemicals. We make this process unnatural when we reprogram our sex drives toward images, sexual body parts, promiscuity or even more destructive behaviors, like bestiality or pedophilia.

Because of the chemicals involved, one of the symptoms of the addiction is developing affections for the objects of our sexual misbehavior. We chemically trick ourselves into believing we're expressing love. The addiction overpowers the normal sex drive, making natural lovemaking increasingly difficult, compelling us toward ever more deviant and destructive sexual behavior. When we understand pornography and sexual addictions are drug addictions, we're given a valuable tool for regaining control.

Stop Using The Sex Drugs: Abstinence is as powerful a tool against porn and sex addictions as it is against alcoholism and drug addictions...there really is no difference, except availability. So, though it should be no surprise, it may shock you to learn that sexual abstinence for at least a year (sometimes 2-3 years) is necessary to defeat this addiction and regain some measure of sexual innocence. This means no normal sex, no porn, no masturbation...nothing. If you're like me, it may also mean giving up movies and TV with sex scenes, commercials with partially clothed people in them, magazines and even clothing catalogs if there are underwear or bathing suit pictures. Yes, it is possible! It's just not easy! Now, after years of controlling my impulses, I can have that stuff around and even watch TV and movies with little temptation...just have to look away during some scenes and commercials. How important is it to you to overcome this addiction?

Get Help With Sexual Addiction: If recovery is important to you, getting help should be just as important. Yes, I know it's embarrassing. I've been embarrassed that way. Others will tell you what they learned in a book. I'm telling you what I learned by reading and practice, that helped me. One of the things that helped was being accountable to my wife and to others who didn't suffer from the same addiction. The power of sexual addiction is secrecy. If you reveal the secret, you leave no place for the addiction to hide. No, you don't have to advertise in the newspaper! Your spouse and one other trusted friend or counselor are usually enough as long as you're committed to being complete and honest. Failures (they will happen) need to be revealed to those you're accountable to. They should question you and forgive you as long as the frequency is decreasing. If we're dishonest or evasive about it or if the frequency is increasing, these friends should confront us strongly, to help us in the fight.

Abstinence and helpful accountability are ways to keep from doing the sexual misbehavior we've already decided we won't do. Now, what do we do with all that time and all those thoughts we've encouraged over the years? This is where 'reprogramming' comes in.

Reprogram Your Sex Drive: We thought we were just playing or engaging in fantasy, but reprogramming our sex drives took regular imagination, effort and commitment. To reprogram it to respond to the wrong behavior is easy, because the response produces an immediate reward in the form of sex drugs. Now, to reprogram our sex drives back to natural behavior requires a strong commitment and effort, with no tangible reward...just the satisfaction and self-esteem of having regained control of our bodies. How do we do this? In our minds!

All sex happens in the brain! A couple thousand years ago, a guy by the name of Jeheshua said all we have to do is think about sex and we've engaged in sex. I know that makes most of us adulterers and worse, but it points to the power we need to overcome our addiction. The moment we have a sexual thought, the chemicals begin pumping...that's how pornography works, and why we need to control the images and ideas we get from the computer, books, movies, etc. Still, there are a lot of sexual thoughts already permanently in our brains. If we've taken the time to develop an addiction, these thoughts will pop up often. So, how do we fight those thoughts?

When discussing my sexual addiction, a good friend told me, You can't keep a bird from landing on your head, but you can keep it from building a nest there." Reprogramming the sex drive involves chasing those birds away every time they land. We can build an arsenal of powerful good thoughts to replace the ones we're chasing away. We can pursue positive hobbies and activities that occupy our thoughts. We can listen to music, read uplifting books and volunteer our services to the community. We can collect memories and emotions we felt while looking at a tree, the sky, a waterfall, etc. These can be powerful tools to chase away sexually addictive thoughts. If you dwell on a thought, it gathers strength. If you push it out of your mind, it becomes weak. The more we force our minds to ignore sexual images and to focus on uplifting and positive thoughts, the more freedom we'll have from addiction. Those tempting images will happen less often and be far less powerful.

Well, I didn't promise it would be easy, but it is possible to overcome sexual addictions and regain much of the innocence we once had. We need a strong commitment to abstain from sexual activity, be accountable to a trusted friend and to mentally push out those tempting thoughts and images. From personal experience, I can tell you, the rewards in self-confidence and a satisfying natural sex life make the battle worthwhile.

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Sex is a normal part of life. But too much of anything is not good and the same is for sex.
Compulsive sexual behavior is when the desire for sex is overwhelming and you are so intensely preoccupied with this need that it interferes with your job and your relationships. Compulsive sexual behavior interferes with relationships, work, friendships, and lifestyle. It is having sex with multiple partners or prostitutes, and treating them as objects to be used for sex.

When a person spend inordinate amounts of time in sexually related activities and neglects important aspects of daily it creates problem as sexual obsessions and compulsions are recurrent, distressing and interfere with daily functioning. There are a number of people who suffer from such problems but finding harmony about them among sexual scientists or treatment professionals is not easy. This creates difficulty for those suffering from compulsive sexual behavior to get the appropriate help they need.
Compulsive sexual behavior is also known as hypersexuality, nymphomania or erotomania. It is also called "sex addiction". Whatever the name attached to the behavior, compulsive sexual behavior is a very real trouble that interferes with everyday living. Compulsive sexual behavior is most common among men according to Current research.
There are two basic types of compulsive sexual behavior paraphilic and nonparaphilic.

Paraphilic CSB

Paraphilic behaviors involves unconventional sexual behaviors that is compulsive and, consequently devoid of love and intimacy.

Nonparaphilic CSB

Nonparaphilic CSB involves conventional and normative sexual behavior taken that has been taken to a compulsive extreme

Some of such behaviors are short-lived but sexual obsessions and compulsions may also interfere with daily functioning or be accompanied by a variety of medical problems.
When such people have sexual activity it provides temporary relief, but it is followed by further distress. There is risk for STDs, illnesses and injuries to persons engaging in CSB. They also experiences moral, social, and legal sanctions, and endure great emotional suffering
A person, who often engages in risky sex, has a lot of sexual partners and often mixes sex with drugs or alcohol is into sex addiction. Like all addictions, it has negative impact on the addict and the family members.

Compulsive sexual behavior leads to compulsive masturbation or the extensive use of pornography or phone or computer sex services. But at times this addiction can involve illegal activities such as exhibitionism, voyeurism, obscene phone calls, child molestation or rape. Sex addicts do not necessarily become sex offenders and it is also true that not all sex offenders are sex addicts
Sexually obsessive behavior at times is chronic, intense and beyond your control. This may be caused due to some emotional problems including mood and personality disorders. It could also be due to other psychological disorders. Experts believe that if a person grow up in a dysfunctional family or was sexually, emotionally or physically abused as a child, he or she may developed an unhealthy attitude toward sex. On feeling lonely and depressed, people perceive sexual compulsions as a way of filling the voids in their life. In some cases, compulsive sexual behavior can be caused by a neurologic disorder, just like an epilepsy or Alzheimer's disease.

Individuals on their own or through simple information, education, or brief counseling can resolve the problematic sexual behavior. They can also be treated by group therapy and medications.

Find more information visit: Compulsive sexual behavior

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Special moments of our lives are best celebrated through parties with friends and special someone! In fact, partying is just so fun that we even try to do it for no reason at all. Aside from the scrumptious food, "in the hype" music and overflowing beer, the best way to spice up parties is by having party games that are sexy, kinky and hot! Sexy party games are brought into play in order to make the parties more memorable. In fact, there are times that through these games, people get to find their soul mates.

So, are you planning to host a party?

If so, you should start working on your list and don't forget to include some sexy party games! I'm a hundred percent positive about this. You might even end up being called as "the cupid" because with this kind of games, the shy ones get the chance to be aggressive and forward while everybody else finds an alibi to get laid. Who knows? You could be the shy one and the girl you have been planning to ask out on a date belongs to the "everybody else."

Now, if you are running out of ideas, let me tell you that I'm not done yet! Yes. If you will continue to read on, you will be able to find the most suitable games for your party! Most of these games are actually simple games but when you put on the twists, they become scorching hot!

Kissing Games
Kissing games have been played since time we didn't know existed. I wouldn't be surprised if you have tried these when you were younger. Maybe back in middle school or early high school. Believe it or not, these kissing games become pretty much hotter when played by a group of grown ups!

60 Seconds in Heaven
You will need:
A red lipstick
A closet big enough for two people to share

How to play?
I'm sure you have an idea on how to get this done. You basically send a girl and a boy inside the closet and let them stay there for 60 seconds. They just have to imprint each other with as many kiss marks as possible because the pair with most number of kiss marks wins.

Body Shots
You will need:
Whip cream
Chocolate syrup
Strawberry jam
Or any sticky sauce there is in your fridge

How to play?
You are old enough to know what a body shot is! Let the group form a circle. Boys should be beside girls and vice versa (unless there are gays and lesbians in the crowd). Place the creams, jams and other what nots in the middle. Have someone start the game by choosing one cream, jam or whatever. Have it placed on any body part of the person sitting bisde the starter. Then the starter must lick it off. Let the routine go around. Each body shot should be much daring as the previous.

Strip Tease Games
This is another way to heat up parties. Strip teasing! Just like the kissing games I've presented you with, these are just simple games that have been leveled up for more fun and pleasure.

Card Games
You will need:
A deck of cards, of course

How to play?
Just play any card game. Every time someone loses, S/He should take off one piece of clothing s/he is wearing. Do not stop until someone is deliberately stripped!

Strip Tease Quiz Bee
You will need:
Sets of easy to difficult questions

How to play?
The crowd should be divided into two groups. Start with the easy questions. Each question should have a corresponding piece of cloth to be taken off depending on the difficulty. If the group fails to answer the question, every member must take off the material the question requires.

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While it is painful to even think about, you’ve started to have this nagging suspicion in the back of your mind that your husband may be cheating on you with an escort in Winsford . Whether he heads out late at night to run ambiguous errands, comes back home and immediately heads to the shower, or returns home appearing to have already showered at a different location — these are the signs that led you to believe your husband may be engaging in extramarital infidelity with a Winsford escort.

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What is important to know with this type of activity, in general, is that seeing an escort agency in Winsford is not usually one of the first steps of extramarital infidelity. If your husband has been, in fact, seeing an escort — there is a good chance that he has a history of unfaithfulness to one degree or another. As an example, before man would visit a local Winsford escort, it is likely that he has a history, generally a long history, with pornography in general. In addition to viewing pornography, there is also the chance that these men have used various websites, such as married but looking websites, adult chat rooms, escort websites, and so forth, before they have actually met up with an escort agency in Winsford .

However, because men who visit Winsford escort agencies oftentimes have a long history of deviance from their marital vows, online infidelity investigation services can help to uncover both the types of websites that your husband has visited as well as potentially catching them trying to solicit an escort.

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Many people like the thought of hosting a swingers party. They can be great fun and the pace where many fantasies are acted out. But how do you actually go about putting one together? Here are a few tips that will make the event easier and guaranteed fun:

  1. Decide how many people you want to be there. Do you want it to be a large party or an intimate gathering? Do you want it to be just for couples or do you want to invite single people (men and/or women) as well?

  2. Find a venue. Most people would think of their home, but it needn't be the only place to host a party. If your place isn't suitable, large enough, etc you could ask one of the other guests if they would be willing to host it. A hotel room is a good choice if the numbers aren't going to be too great, but another alternative is a local swingers club. You could arrange for your group to all meet there.

  3. Find your guests. Unless you already know a lot of swingers, by far the easiest way to find your guests is online. Set up a profile on a swingers website such as Kasidie.com and list your event there. Then you can begin to contact other couples in your area who you think might be suitable.

  4. Insist on meeting everyone first. If your party is couples only you will be amazed how many single men will try to get an invitation by masquerading as a couple online. When they arrive at the party they will make an excuse for being alone such as "the wife is sick". Insist you meet the couple first, or at least talk to them on the phone - both of them - to ensure they're for real and who they say they are.

  5. Charge something. A small charge, paid to you in advance, is a great way to ensure people actually show up, as well as helping towards your hosting costs.

  6. Have condoms and lube available. It is normal for the host to provide these, although you can ask people also to bring their own.

  7. Have fun! Obviously this is the point of the party in the first place. However, to achieve this the most important thing to communicate to your guests is that no one is under any pressure to participate or do anything they are not totally comfortable with. Even if you have met the guests beforehand there is no guarantee people will click in a way that makes them want to take things to a sexual level.

Hosting a swingers party does take a bit of effort and time to organise but the results can be well worth it. Even if it doesn't turn into an all-out orgy you may still make some new friends. There are many more people wanting to attend a party than are willing to organise one so your efforts will be well appreciated.

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Sex is a normal part of life. But too much of anything is not good and the same is for sex.
Compulsive sexual behavior is when the desire for sex is overwhelming and you are so intensely preoccupied with this need that it interferes with your job and your relationships. Compulsive sexual behavior interferes with relationships, work, friendships, and lifestyle. It is having sex with multiple partners or prostitutes, and treating them as objects to be used for sex.

When a person spend inordinate amounts of time in sexually related activities and neglects important aspects of daily it creates problem as sexual obsessions and compulsions are recurrent, distressing and interfere with daily functioning. There are a number of people who suffer from such problems but finding harmony about them among sexual scientists or treatment professionals is not easy. This creates difficulty for those suffering from compulsive sexual behavior to get the appropriate help they need.
Compulsive sexual behavior is also known as hypersexuality, nymphomania or erotomania. It is also called "sex addiction". Whatever the name attached to the behavior, compulsive sexual behavior is a very real trouble that interferes with everyday living. Compulsive sexual behavior is most common among men according to Current research.
There are two basic types of compulsive sexual behavior paraphilic and nonparaphilic.

Paraphilic CSB

Paraphilic behaviors involves unconventional sexual behaviors that is compulsive and, consequently devoid of love and intimacy.

Nonparaphilic CSB

Nonparaphilic CSB involves conventional and normative sexual behavior taken that has been taken to a compulsive extreme

Some of such behaviors are short-lived but sexual obsessions and compulsions may also interfere with daily functioning or be accompanied by a variety of medical problems.
When such people have sexual activity it provides temporary relief, but it is followed by further distress. There is risk for STDs, illnesses and injuries to persons engaging in CSB. They also experiences moral, social, and legal sanctions, and endure great emotional suffering
A person, who often engages in risky sex, has a lot of sexual partners and often mixes sex with drugs or alcohol is into sex addiction. Like all addictions, it has negative impact on the addict and the family members.

Compulsive sexual behavior leads to compulsive masturbation or the extensive use of pornography or phone or computer sex services. But at times this addiction can involve illegal activities such as exhibitionism, voyeurism, obscene phone calls, child molestation or rape. Sex addicts do not necessarily become sex offenders and it is also true that not all sex offenders are sex addicts
Sexually obsessive behavior at times is chronic, intense and beyond your control. This may be caused due to some emotional problems including mood and personality disorders. It could also be due to other psychological disorders. Experts believe that if a person grow up in a dysfunctional family or was sexually, emotionally or physically abused as a child, he or she may developed an unhealthy attitude toward sex. On feeling lonely and depressed, people perceive sexual compulsions as a way of filling the voids in their life. In some cases, compulsive sexual behavior can be caused by a neurologic disorder, just like an epilepsy or Alzheimer's disease.

Individuals on their own or through simple information, education, or brief counseling can resolve the problematic sexual behavior. They can also be treated by group therapy and medications.

Find more information visit: Compulsive sexual behavior

[http://www.keepcondom.com/articles/sexual-health/compulsive-sexual-behavior.htm]

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One characteristic of Jesus Christ is his willingness to serve. He spent his entire life serving the apostles and all those he came in contact with. Through the scriptures, his service has become much more far reaching, beyond the people he came in direct contact with. The stories that are told teach all of us why service is important. The scriptures are full of examples of how Christ served.

Teaching is an important type of service. When Christ was just a boy, he was in the temple teaching men much older than himself. But this didn't bother the young Jesus. He didn't care how old or young someone was. He was, as the scriptures say "no respecter of persons." Along the same lines, Christ taught so much to the apostles and to us today when he washed the apostles' feet. What a humble act of service. This is a clear example that nothing is too small for us to do to help comfort or care for someone else. It's a great reminder that the small and simple things make a big impact.

When Christ was hanging on the cross, he did two acts of service that teach volumes. First, he turned to one of the apostles and said "Behold thy Mother" He was making sure his mother would be taken care of even as he was preparing for his own death! And then just before he died, Christ asked God to forgive the thief. On death's doorstep, he was still concerned for the welfare of others. Both of the examples remind us how crucial it is to reach beyond ourselves to see the needs of others.

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The adult entertainment industry is one of the oldest in the world. With the continuous popularity of the Internet, adult entertainment has reached new heights, now utilizing technological advancement to create a bigger, wider market. Indeed, the adult entertainment industry online won't be going anywhere anytime soon, and if you join right now, you'll be reaping the fruits of your hard work sooner than most online businesses allow. Running things behind the scenes or starring in your own adult videos, having a website dedicated to providing bored adults with their brand of entertainment can be interesting and rewarding. Build a simple adult website now.

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But first and foremost, you need to make sure that the laws in your city or state allow the production and publication of adult content. While some people have taken the risk and gone underground, it's still best to comply with all state and federal laws. Make sure you have legal clearance, plus properly signed release forms and legally accepted photo ids of all the persons you'll be using in your website (i.e. those who will appear in the photos and videos). Remember that even if you have a generic disclaimer, such will not hold up in a court of law. Another important reminder when you build a simple adult website is to check your models' real age - or be at risk for child pornography. Take the time to talk to a lawyer and seek help to ensure that all your legalities concerning the creation of an adult website are in order.

Creating and maintaining an adult website is not for everyone, but if you think you have what it takes to make money out of man's greatest weakness, then the adult entertainment business welcomes you with open arms. Build a simple adult website with these tips and have fun selling pleasurable, highly marketable things.


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While it is painful to even think about, you’ve started to have this nagging suspicion in the back of your mind that your husband may be cheating on you with an escort in Cheshire . Whether he heads out late at night to run ambiguous errands, comes back home and immediately heads to the shower, or returns home appearing to have already showered at a different location — these are the signs that led you to believe your husband may be engaging in extramarital infidelity with a Cheshire escort.

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What is important to know with this type of activity, in general, is that seeing an escort agency in Cheshire is not usually one of the first steps of extramarital infidelity. If your husband has been, in fact, seeing an escort — there is a good chance that he has a history of unfaithfulness to one degree or another. As an example, before man would visit a local Cheshire escort, it is likely that he has a history, generally a long history, with pornography in general. In addition to viewing pornography, there is also the chance that these men have used various websites, such as married but looking websites, adult chat rooms, escort websites, and so forth, before they have actually met up with an escort agency in Cheshire .

However, because men who visit Cheshire escort agencies oftentimes have a long history of deviance from their marital vows, online infidelity investigation services can help to uncover both the types of websites that your husband has visited as well as potentially catching them trying to solicit an escort.

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Many people like the thought of hosting a swingers party. They can be great fun and the pace where many fantasies are acted out. But how do you actually go about putting one together? Here are a few tips that will make the event easier and guaranteed fun:

  1. Decide how many people you want to be there. Do you want it to be a large party or an intimate gathering? Do you want it to be just for couples or do you want to invite single people (men and/or women) as well?

  2. Find a venue. Most people would think of their home, but it needn't be the only place to host a party. If your place isn't suitable, large enough, etc you could ask one of the other guests if they would be willing to host it. A hotel room is a good choice if the numbers aren't going to be too great, but another alternative is a local swingers club. You could arrange for your group to all meet there.

  3. Find your guests. Unless you already know a lot of swingers, by far the easiest way to find your guests is online. Set up a profile on a swingers website such as Kasidie.com and list your event there. Then you can begin to contact other couples in your area who you think might be suitable.

  4. Insist on meeting everyone first. If your party is couples only you will be amazed how many single men will try to get an invitation by masquerading as a couple online. When they arrive at the party they will make an excuse for being alone such as "the wife is sick". Insist you meet the couple first, or at least talk to them on the phone - both of them - to ensure they're for real and who they say they are.

  5. Charge something. A small charge, paid to you in advance, is a great way to ensure people actually show up, as well as helping towards your hosting costs.

  6. Have condoms and lube available. It is normal for the host to provide these, although you can ask people also to bring their own.

  7. Have fun! Obviously this is the point of the party in the first place. However, to achieve this the most important thing to communicate to your guests is that no one is under any pressure to participate or do anything they are not totally comfortable with. Even if you have met the guests beforehand there is no guarantee people will click in a way that makes them want to take things to a sexual level.

Hosting a swingers party does take a bit of effort and time to organise but the results can be well worth it. Even if it doesn't turn into an all-out orgy you may still make some new friends. There are many more people wanting to attend a party than are willing to organise one so your efforts will be well appreciated.

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There are many couples who are turning to a Christian sex party as a way to improve intimacy in their Christian relationship. Having a party is a great way to discuss sex in a relaxed environment, providing new insightful ways for pleasuring tips, techniques, and toys which will help fellow Christian couples in their intimacy relations.

So what goes into planning a Christian sex party? Here's some important aspects to planning:

1. Making it Fun and Informative.

Part of your set up preparation requires you acquire knowledge and information about Christian sex. What's allowed, what's not, various tips, techniques and so forth. You will want to provide resources and contact information or links for your sources. While you don't have to become an expert, as the host you should be able to provide answers to common questions that will arise.

2. Products.

One of the main purposes of a Christian sex party is providing products which is going to help couples improve their intimacy. You can sell these products or at least provide an example and then the contact information on where they can get them. Examples of products are Christian intimacy toys, manuals or guides specifically tailored to Christians and sex, lingerie catalogs, and any other Christian safe tools for improving sex.

3. Creating a calm, pleasant and open environment.

Sex has always been a nervous subject, especially amongst Christians. You want to plan your party around the idea of making it as easy going and open for conversation. The whole purpose of having a party is really conversation. Asking and answering questions, giving helpful advice on how to improve intimacy, and sharing romantic ideas.

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Sex online dating services are by far the most popular dating services on the internet at the moment. Hundreds of thousands of singles go out every weekend to hopefully find a partner to take home for a one night stand. A sex online dating service is a central hub for all these singles to meet without the need to go out looking for their catch.

More singles are realizing the benefits of meeting someone online first. They want the safety of chatting to someone online first while they're sober, and in full control of their senses. Meeting someone online first after viewing their profile gives you an idea of what the person is like before you have to chat to them. Questions are answered for you before a word is spoken so you don't wonder why you started talking to them in the first place.

The cost of meeting singles for sex online is a lot more value as well. A months subscription is less than one night out, and you have the chance of searching through thousands of profiles. That's more singles than you could meet in a whole year going down the club route. And you have the advantage of knowing all of the profiles are of singles that are already looking for sex. This can save a lot of time talking to someone all night only to find out they just want to be friends.

The only disadvantage of meeting someone on the internet for sex is you can't just leave and go off somewhere. You have to make arrangements first. This is where you're safety is a lot better with meeting online for sex instead of a club or bar. A club or bar meeting can put you in a position that you can't get out of, and may regret later.

There are plenty of reviews online for sex dating services. These services are so popular anyway that they must be doing something right. You will find thousands of singles looking for sex in your area if you live in or near a major city or state. Creating your profile will take you about 5 to 10 minutes. Then you have the chance of being contacted by the thousands of singles in your area. It could open up a whole new chapter in your life. It will be a big change from having the choice of a few singles at a club on a Saturday night.

If you have a web cam you will be able to use it in the adult chat rooms at the sex dating web sites. These are the most popular chat rooms on the internet as well. The more imagination you have the more popular you will become.

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If you have specific interests or nightlife desired there are many nightclubs that will meet those needs amazingly well, for this reason it is a good idea to do a little research before hitting any of the many LA nightclubs so that you know what to expect once you walk inside. Visitors and locals alike find that night clubs in California are great for meeting all kinds of needs from the laughs to be had at comedy clubs to line dancing and mingling at country and western bars and clubs. This is one reason that it is important to do your homework before walking into any Orange County night clubs you might come across.

Be secure in the knowledge that your nightclubs are known around the country so that you can be equally assured that your clubs future is secure. Get your club listed at RateClubs.com and watch local business and tourists alike pour into your nightclubs and the money pour into your till-if that doesn't bring a smile to your lips perhaps nothing will.


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While it is painful to even think about, you’ve started to have this nagging suspicion in the back of your mind that your husband may be cheating on you with an escort in Congleton . Whether he heads out late at night to run ambiguous errands, comes back home and immediately heads to the shower, or returns home appearing to have already showered at a different location — these are the signs that led you to believe your husband may be engaging in extramarital infidelity with a Congleton escort.

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What is important to know with this type of activity, in general, is that seeing an escort agency in Congleton is not usually one of the first steps of extramarital infidelity. If your husband has been, in fact, seeing an escort — there is a good chance that he has a history of unfaithfulness to one degree or another. As an example, before man would visit a local Congleton escort, it is likely that he has a history, generally a long history, with pornography in general. In addition to viewing pornography, there is also the chance that these men have used various websites, such as married but looking websites, adult chat rooms, escort websites, and so forth, before they have actually met up with an escort agency in Congleton .

However, because men who visit Congleton escort agencies oftentimes have a long history of deviance from their marital vows, online infidelity investigation services can help to uncover both the types of websites that your husband has visited as well as potentially catching them trying to solicit an escort.

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I bet anybody who has ever watch adult entertainment has wondered how do porn stars last so long when they have sex with such amazing looking women. I know I sure did. So I decided to find out what their secrets are.

Luckily I had some contacts in the industry and managed to watch a few shoots and ask some questions. Everybody involved was more than happy to help, generally they're a very friendly bunch. I guess who wouldn't be given what they do for a living.

So what did I discover? Well of course there is some camera and editing trickery used, they are in show business after all. But these guys were also amazingly professional, and they had quite a few tricks to help their endurance. They wouldn't get paid if they didn't perform. The best bit is you can use most of these techniques at home to help your own duration.

Some of the most common methods were:

  • They used lots and lots of lubricant to cut down on the friction. This was something everybody (including the actresses) seemed to swear by to ensure that both males and females had a good time.
  • They used condoms, and many guys used the newer ones with a small amount of local anesthetic in the tip to reduce the stimulation. You can buy these at just about everywhere you can get the regular kind these days.
  • If things were getting out of control too quickly, they stopped, had a break and focused on something else for a while. You could use this at home by easily too, try oral on your partner if you want to keep her arousal levels high.
  • They would often quickly finish the first time, but knew that after that they would be lasting much longer. Many guys at home try strategic masturbation before big dates if they want to impress a new partner.
  • They think about something else while on the job. One guy I talked to was writing a screen play so he worked on that in his mind. Another would replay a basketball game in his imagination. Just about everyone had a trick to take their minds off of what they were doing. The old cliche about listing batting averages works great too.

There is a brief outline of the most common methods that answers the question how do porn stars last so long. I discovered much more while I was on set.

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All of us who have struggled with sexual addictions have had to face the reality of lost innocence. Whether we're recovering from addiction to pornography or other forms of sexual compulsion, a big part of recovery is facing the need to 'unlearn' our behavior. Maybe you need to quit so you can be truly intimate with your spouse, or just so you can confidently look yourself and others in the eye. Whatever the reason, until we can get all those terrible tempting thoughts under control, we will not be free of our sexual addictions. By understanding the sex drugs, getting sexual addiction help, and 'reprogramming' our sex drive, we can make great progress toward recovered innocence.

Sexual Addictions Are Drug Addictions: Porn and sex addictions are probably the most difficult addictions known to mankind, or womankind, for that matter. This is because sexual addiction is drug addiction, but the drugs are free and available any time and anywhere. All you have to do is think sexual thoughts and the sex drugs begin to flow, driving you toward a climactic release of chemicals into the blood stream. Our bodies manufacture these drugs so we'll want to reproduce. Under natural circumstances, there is nothing wrong with this drive or these chemicals. We make this process unnatural when we reprogram our sex drives toward images, sexual body parts, promiscuity or even more destructive behaviors, like bestiality or pedophilia.

Because of the chemicals involved, one of the symptoms of the addiction is developing affections for the objects of our sexual misbehavior. We chemically trick ourselves into believing we're expressing love. The addiction overpowers the normal sex drive, making natural lovemaking increasingly difficult, compelling us toward ever more deviant and destructive sexual behavior. When we understand pornography and sexual addictions are drug addictions, we're given a valuable tool for regaining control.

Stop Using The Sex Drugs: Abstinence is as powerful a tool against porn and sex addictions as it is against alcoholism and drug addictions...there really is no difference, except availability. So, though it should be no surprise, it may shock you to learn that sexual abstinence for at least a year (sometimes 2-3 years) is necessary to defeat this addiction and regain some measure of sexual innocence. This means no normal sex, no porn, no masturbation...nothing. If you're like me, it may also mean giving up movies and TV with sex scenes, commercials with partially clothed people in them, magazines and even clothing catalogs if there are underwear or bathing suit pictures. Yes, it is possible! It's just not easy! Now, after years of controlling my impulses, I can have that stuff around and even watch TV and movies with little temptation...just have to look away during some scenes and commercials. How important is it to you to overcome this addiction?

Get Help With Sexual Addiction: If recovery is important to you, getting help should be just as important. Yes, I know it's embarrassing. I've been embarrassed that way. Others will tell you what they learned in a book. I'm telling you what I learned by reading and practice, that helped me. One of the things that helped was being accountable to my wife and to others who didn't suffer from the same addiction. The power of sexual addiction is secrecy. If you reveal the secret, you leave no place for the addiction to hide. No, you don't have to advertise in the newspaper! Your spouse and one other trusted friend or counselor are usually enough as long as you're committed to being complete and honest. Failures (they will happen) need to be revealed to those you're accountable to. They should question you and forgive you as long as the frequency is decreasing. If we're dishonest or evasive about it or if the frequency is increasing, these friends should confront us strongly, to help us in the fight.

Abstinence and helpful accountability are ways to keep from doing the sexual misbehavior we've already decided we won't do. Now, what do we do with all that time and all those thoughts we've encouraged over the years? This is where 'reprogramming' comes in.

Reprogram Your Sex Drive: We thought we were just playing or engaging in fantasy, but reprogramming our sex drives took regular imagination, effort and commitment. To reprogram it to respond to the wrong behavior is easy, because the response produces an immediate reward in the form of sex drugs. Now, to reprogram our sex drives back to natural behavior requires a strong commitment and effort, with no tangible reward...just the satisfaction and self-esteem of having regained control of our bodies. How do we do this? In our minds!

All sex happens in the brain! A couple thousand years ago, a guy by the name of Jeheshua said all we have to do is think about sex and we've engaged in sex. I know that makes most of us adulterers and worse, but it points to the power we need to overcome our addiction. The moment we have a sexual thought, the chemicals begin pumping...that's how pornography works, and why we need to control the images and ideas we get from the computer, books, movies, etc. Still, there are a lot of sexual thoughts already permanently in our brains. If we've taken the time to develop an addiction, these thoughts will pop up often. So, how do we fight those thoughts?

When discussing my sexual addiction, a good friend told me, You can't keep a bird from landing on your head, but you can keep it from building a nest there." Reprogramming the sex drive involves chasing those birds away every time they land. We can build an arsenal of powerful good thoughts to replace the ones we're chasing away. We can pursue positive hobbies and activities that occupy our thoughts. We can listen to music, read uplifting books and volunteer our services to the community. We can collect memories and emotions we felt while looking at a tree, the sky, a waterfall, etc. These can be powerful tools to chase away sexually addictive thoughts. If you dwell on a thought, it gathers strength. If you push it out of your mind, it becomes weak. The more we force our minds to ignore sexual images and to focus on uplifting and positive thoughts, the more freedom we'll have from addiction. Those tempting images will happen less often and be far less powerful.

Well, I didn't promise it would be easy, but it is possible to overcome sexual addictions and regain much of the innocence we once had. We need a strong commitment to abstain from sexual activity, be accountable to a trusted friend and to mentally push out those tempting thoughts and images. From personal experience, I can tell you, the rewards in self-confidence and a satisfying natural sex life make the battle worthwhile.

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Doctors tell us that sexual abstinence can harm the physical and psychic health of men and women. Find out how you can reverse the harmful side effects of abstinence with or without a sexual partner.

How can sexual abstinence harm your health?

You may be grieving the loss of your romantic partner or a loss of sexual intimacy in a relationship, and the process of grieving takes a huge toll on your health. When your thoughts turn to loss and dis-ease, you lose the health benefits of feeling love and gratitude -- our two healing emotions.

You may feel content on your own without a sexual partner, yet the lack of sexual activity takes its health toll.

Men and women who abstain from sex for long periods can develop problems with sexual function.

Men may experience issues concerning erection and ejaculation. Testosterone levels may fall and reduce desire.

Women may suffer a loss of arousal, vaginal lubrication and an inability to climax. Estrogen levels may fall and bad cholesterol may rise.

Fortunately, these conditions may reverse and return to normal after you resume sexual activity.

Men and women who abstain from sex miss out on these health benefits of sexual activity:

- ease in handling stress

- speedy cell repair and regeneration

- increased intimacy hormones that elevate mood

- greater blood flow to brain that improves memory

- stronger immune system and less fatigue or illness

- younger skin and less body fat from human growth hormone produced during sex

- extended longevity

If you don't have a sexual partner, is there another way to gain these health benefits?

Researchers report that our sexual health must be maintained by a regular and active sex life.

If you don't have a sexual partner, there are several ways to avoid or reverse the side effects of sexual abstinence:

* Substitute sex with masturbation

- Men often masturbate, even when their sex life is in order.

- Many women do not masturbate, even when deprived of sex.

- Some religions view it as sinful, unacceptable behavior.

- Sexual researchers report that masturbation is one way to maintain sexual and psychic health. Here is another:

* Use sex toys

- They are used by adults who cannot make love with a beloved partner, yet they don't want to sleep around.

- There are vibrators, realistic dolls, dildos that are safe tools for sexual release.

- Unlike casual sex with a partner, the sex toys cannot expose you to STDs.

- They stimulate the health benefits of an active sex life.

* Develop sexual intimacy in a relationship

- Improve your existing relationship so that you revive the spark of sexual fire for an active, healthy sex life.

- Find a compatible match for a loving, passionate relationship through matchmaking services or online dating sites.

- Health studies confirm that you will age better and sustain healthy vitality when you enjoy an active sex life.

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Ever wondered what wife swapping, swinger's clubs and swingers lifestyle really mean? In a committed partnership but looking for some extra sexual excitement together?

Swinging has become increasingly popular across middle aged mainstream married, or committed, couples. Over 4 million people world wide are swingers, with over 3000 swingers clubs around the globe to join. Swingers can also meet through online swinger's sites, swinger's personal ads, house parties and swinger's lifestyle magazines.

"Swinging" is considered to mean a married or committed couple engaging in sexual activities with either another couple, multiple couples or with a single person. These events can occur at swingers clubs, private parties, private homes, hotels, and even at specific holiday resorts.

Traditionally, the average age of swingers is the mid 40's, and all ages and body types are considered acceptable.

"The Lifestyle", or the swinger's lifestyle, was created in the late 1990's in London for the well heeled under 40's. Forget the jatz and crackers. Trendy, up market venues were selected, smart evening wear was the attire and photos were needed to prove physical attractiveness. This idea took off quickly and is now popular in all parts of the world. Selective swinging refers to usually childless unmarried young graduates with average ages of late 20's. Lifestyle swinging and selective swinging both encompass all swinging activities. These terms came into use mainly because younger couples didn't care for the term swingers with its traditional connotations.

It is thought that swinging started in the 1950's in US military bases in California. The husbands all threw their car keys in a bowl and whoever belonged to the keys that the wife pulled out had her as their sexual partner for the night. Originally, these little get togethers were called key clubs. In the late 1950's the media redubbed them wife swapping parties. Wife swapping is now considered to be an archaic term and is not entirely accurate in covering all the sexual options of swinging couples.

For those of you who are a little shy or new to the game, there are many swingers' sites available for you to check out. Most of them cater to those looking to heat up their relationship, as well as those singles who want to mingle with like minded individuals. Some of these sites offer adult personal ads, which can include video voice and pictures. They also offer video chat rooms, speed dating, swinger club location listings, video messenger, and hot games. Some sites also offer offline swinger parties where you can take it at your own comfort level and speed.

Swinging sexual activities include: exhibitionism, having sex with your partner while being watched, voyeurism, and watching others having sex. Soft swinging, or soft swap, is kissing, stroking or oral sex with a 3rd or 4th person. This can also include threesomes or group sex but usually partners are not swapped. A full swap means having penetrative sexual intercourse with someone other than your committed partner. The original wife swap. A full swap can also mean a committed couple having sex with a bisexual female for a saucy threesome. Group sex is an all inclusive term for multiple partners having sexual intercourse in the same room or an orgy. While the sexual activities are happening in the same room this is referred to as same room swapping. When there are separate rooms involved it is then called play.

Planning a raunchy vacation with your partner? There are now online swinger sites catering for the couple who are into swinging holidays or nude vacations. Swingers' resorts can be found in the Caribbean, Cancun, Mexico and various parts of Europe. These resorts are designed for couples only, who enjoy erotic exciting lifestyles, and all seem to involve destinations with beautiful white sandy beaches and featuring large exotic looking swimming pools. Many of these swingers' resorts have a variety of saucy theme nights. Some of the resorts promise "non stop flat out parties" for the more active bodied person.

Providing that the emotional bonds between the committed couple are whole, many swingers feel that their chosen lifestyle increases the strength of their partnership. In one survey, while only 6% confessed to having a problem with the green eyed monster, up to 70% of swingers claimed they had no problems with jealousy at all.

Seeking to spice up your sex life with your significant other? This could be it! Swingers clubs, swinger sites, swinger sex, swinger's lifestyle, and swingers resort. Pack up your condoms and raunch up your relationship now!

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While it is painful to even think about, you’ve started to have this nagging suspicion in the back of your mind that your husband may be cheating on you with an escort in Warrington . Whether he heads out late at night to run ambiguous errands, comes back home and immediately heads to the shower, or returns home appearing to have already showered at a different location — these are the signs that led you to believe your husband may be engaging in extramarital infidelity with a Warrington escort.

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What is important to know with this type of activity, in general, is that seeing an escort agency in Warrington is not usually one of the first steps of extramarital infidelity. If your husband has been, in fact, seeing an escort — there is a good chance that he has a history of unfaithfulness to one degree or another. As an example, before man would visit a local Warrington escort, it is likely that he has a history, generally a long history, with pornography in general. In addition to viewing pornography, there is also the chance that these men have used various websites, such as married but looking websites, adult chat rooms, escort websites, and so forth, before they have actually met up with an escort agency in Warrington .

However, because men who visit Warrington escort agencies oftentimes have a long history of deviance from their marital vows, online infidelity investigation services can help to uncover both the types of websites that your husband has visited as well as potentially catching them trying to solicit an escort.

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If you've decided to start hosting adult parties, you're probably wondering just what you need to do in order to get your home ready for the occasion. Although an adult toy party doesn't need to be an elaborate affair, it's still nice to set things up properly to enhance everyone's experience. You can learn more about getting your home ready for an adult toy party by reading on below.

Setting Up the Room

Logistically, it makes sense to set aside a single room in which the majority of the event will take place. Depending on what sorts of party ideas for adults you've devised, you may need to clear away a decent amount of room. At any rate, it's always smart to clear away as much clutter and riffraff as possible. Designate a table or counter for product demonstrations, and make sure that it is cleared away to make doing this much easier.

Decorating the Room

Elaborate decorations really aren't necessary for an adult toy party. After all, only adults will be attending and none of them will be expecting streamers, balloons or other things. Still, it's nice to spruce the place up a bit to give it a more appealing feel. Candles are one great way to do so; light a couple and place them strategically so that they enhance the ambiance of the room. Aromatherapy is another good choice; invest in a few key items to help make your home as pleasant to be in as possible.

Drinks to Serve

No adult toy party is complete without a decent array of beverages. Head over to the bottle shop and stock up on the ingredients for some of the more popular ladies' drinks. If possible, ask the invitees what their cocktails of choice are, and make sure to have all of the necessary fixings. Champagne is always a good fall back, so pick up a few inexpensive bottles to pass around. Remember that some women may prefer non-alcoholic drinks; think about preparing some smoothies or other fruity drinks for them. Finally, make sure you have plenty of ice on hand!

Food to Prepare

Food is another very important part of any successful adult party. At the same time, the event isn't supposed to revolve around food, so you aren't going to want to prepare large meals. Things like oysters and chocolate fondue are always hits, as are vegetable trays and fruit salads. Tortilla chips and salsa are usually good options, too; basically, finger foods are the way to go. Pick up an assortment of them and have them all ready on a table for your guests to enjoy. Without a doubt, it will be a party to remember!

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Adult book stores cater to some of the needs of adults, meaning they pamper the basic instincts of sex and - in some cases - sleaze. The reality is that adult books comprise a niche market of great fascination not only to young men and women, but also to adolescents and old persons alike.

Ask an adult book store owner and he will tell you that he sells books on healthy sex for normal persons and not just for "sexual delinquents" or "dirty old men". Besides books on sex, these adult bookstores also sell gifts, novelties, toys, videos, DVDs, used and new magazines and other sex related material for fun and entertainment. These bookstores also cater to the needs of gays, lesbians and homosexuals, and so on. Most of these adult bookstores remain open 24 hours, while some take two hours' break for the necessary "clean-ups". To further whet the appetite of their customers some of these stores also have small "theaters" to preview the books that the customer may intend to buy.

Entry to adult bookstores is often restricted to persons who are at least 19 years old. In some states it is obligatory to show valid ID as proof of age before entering these adult book stores.

While providing legitimate fun and entertainment should not be discouraged, some adult bookstores degenerate into promoting illegal forms of sex, which just scares the healthy fun seekers. These places are sometimes creepy and utterly revolting and tend to become dens of obscenity, prostitution and crime. Unfortunately, it is difficult to draw a line between healthy sexual entertainment and "perverted" sex. Yet, going by the number of people who visit these stores, it can only be concluded that their popularity is on the rise.

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Swinging has become more popular than ever in recent years thanks to technology and the internet. The days of placing ads in magazines or attending shady "key parties" are long gone! Most swingers- who are often called lifestyle members or members of the swinging lifestyle- typically meet one another online, in swingers clubs, on swingers cruises or at swinger parties.

1. Finding other swingers online is one of the easiest ways to find new friends and partners. Couples and singles can place ads on various "dating" websites that are geared toward people in the swinging lifestyle. Single males often have more trouble making connections with couples than single females do simply because there are more unattached males in the swinging lifestyle than unattached females.

2. Various swingers clubs are located in most large cities. They're usually similar to traditional night clubs, but there's a twist- people attending these clubs are swingers or interested in trying out the swinging lifestyle. Some clubs are simply a meeting place where swingers can dance, drink and have fun while others offer on-site play rooms for consenting adults.

3. Swingers cruises are often arranged by travel agencies specializing in alternative lifestyles. These cruises may consist of a large group of lifestyle members that wish to take a vacation together and meet new swingers, or a "takeover" in which the entire cruise ship is reserved for lifestyle members. Some swingers reserve spots on these cruises with people they already know and others take the trip in hopes of meeting new people.

4. Swinger parties are often held at clubs, but they can also be held in private homes or at hotels. Parties are a good way for swingers to connect with others and have fun. Some of these parties involve sexual activity while others are costume parties or themed parties.

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Honestly, I don't know enough about sex to comment on this topic. My last sexual partner is my current partner, and she has made it clear that for her, privacy is an aphrodisiac. All the better for you, since I have been forced to consult the sexiest person I know on your behalf. I talked to my German friend Sia Moore-Auphen. She's been around the world so many times she has a passport collection: every page has at least three stamps on it and all the ink is bright red.

I asked Sia the secret to having More Sex. "Should people take out a clever personal ad?" I asked, "Do they need to sign-up for one of those on-line adult dating services? Or should I advise my readers to join the Young Republicrats and learn the art of making small talk?"

"No, No, NO! Rodney," said Sia. "You make everything so complicated! There are only three secrets to having More Sex: one, you must date your own species; two, you must invite people into your bed, and; three, if they ask you, you have to say yes."

I told her I didn't think my readers would have a problem with the saying yes part, and that I believed most of them made it a rule to only date other human beings. "Just because someone is human, doesn't mean I will go to bed with them," said Sia. "If you are a troll, you need to date trolls. Homemakers should NOT date home wreckers. Elves should date elves not fairies. Polyamories should ONLY date other polies and so on." I agreed that parrot lovers would have a lot to talk about and agreed to pass on her advice. "Great," she said, "your chances of getting lucky, and for lasting sexual happiness, are greatly increased when you date your own sexual species."

But how about getting them into bed? "Ask," she said. "Nicely," she added. That can't be all there is to it? "It helps if you've talked honestly and openly about what you like and listened attentively when your potential partner said what THEY liked." I tilted my head doubtfully. "Of course," said Sia, "it also helps if you are a good kisser, a generous tipper and aren't afraid to dance, but honesty and desire are paramount." So, to review: date your own sexual species, ask, nicely, and say yes. "Right," she said. "Oh, and use a condom and make sure they've had their shots, and if you ever get a chance to..." she went into a long, detailed, explicit, steamy, oh-my explanation of... well, anyway, it was beyond the purview of this article.

When I asked Sia about the question of quality, she said, "Quality is about being in the moment when you are together and being with the person you love when you are apart." What? "Of course," she explained, "you need to be there in the moments to know if what you are doing is working, to know how YOU feel about it, and to sense how THEY feel about it. Otherwise, you are just phoning it in." Since Sia was Germany's number one phone sex operator three years running, I took her at her word. "And when you are apart," she said, giving me a smoldering look, "you need to think about what the other person might like. Try to get inside their skin. Consider what they've told you, and what they have carefully avoided telling you. Then," said "then you will come to bed with an appetite for your lover, a hunger you will both long to satisfy!"

I thanked my friend and since the air conditioning unit had completely stopped working in the little restaurant where we met, I gathered my notes to go. "Just tell them to lighten up! Confidence is attractive to men and women. See," she said, glancing at the notes I held carefully in my lap, "my sense of confidence is working on you."


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While it is painful to even think about, you’ve started to have this nagging suspicion in the back of your mind that your husband may be cheating on you with an escort in Chester . Whether he heads out late at night to run ambiguous errands, comes back home and immediately heads to the shower, or returns home appearing to have already showered at a different location — these are the signs that led you to believe your husband may be engaging in extramarital infidelity with a Chester escort.

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What is important to know with this type of activity, in general, is that seeing an escort agency in Chester is not usually one of the first steps of extramarital infidelity. If your husband has been, in fact, seeing an escort — there is a good chance that he has a history of unfaithfulness to one degree or another. As an example, before man would visit a local Chester escort, it is likely that he has a history, generally a long history, with pornography in general. In addition to viewing pornography, there is also the chance that these men have used various websites, such as married but looking websites, adult chat rooms, escort websites, and so forth, before they have actually met up with an escort agency in Chester .

However, because men who visit Chester escort agencies oftentimes have a long history of deviance from their marital vows, online infidelity investigation services can help to uncover both the types of websites that your husband has visited as well as potentially catching them trying to solicit an escort.

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Swinging has become more popular than ever in recent years thanks to technology and the internet. The days of placing ads in magazines or attending shady "key parties" are long gone! Most swingers- who are often called lifestyle members or members of the swinging lifestyle- typically meet one another online, in swingers clubs, on swingers cruises or at swinger parties.

1. Finding other swingers online is one of the easiest ways to find new friends and partners. Couples and singles can place ads on various "dating" websites that are geared toward people in the swinging lifestyle. Single males often have more trouble making connections with couples than single females do simply because there are more unattached males in the swinging lifestyle than unattached females.

2. Various swingers clubs are located in most large cities. They're usually similar to traditional night clubs, but there's a twist- people attending these clubs are swingers or interested in trying out the swinging lifestyle. Some clubs are simply a meeting place where swingers can dance, drink and have fun while others offer on-site play rooms for consenting adults.

3. Swingers cruises are often arranged by travel agencies specializing in alternative lifestyles. These cruises may consist of a large group of lifestyle members that wish to take a vacation together and meet new swingers, or a "takeover" in which the entire cruise ship is reserved for lifestyle members. Some swingers reserve spots on these cruises with people they already know and others take the trip in hopes of meeting new people.

4. Swinger parties are often held at clubs, but they can also be held in private homes or at hotels. Parties are a good way for swingers to connect with others and have fun. Some of these parties involve sexual activity while others are costume parties or themed parties.

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Steve is a professional musician. A man in his 50's, virile yet sensitive, he is sexually compulsive around fetishistic sex. Since his early teens, Steve had masturbated nearly every night before going to sleep. As he matured, his need for masturbation increased until he was masturbated five or six times a day. He found that if he did not act on these urges, he would remain "horny" all day, which would make him restless, distracted, and irritable. When asked about his masturbatory fantasies, he related that they centered on feet, stockings, worshiping at the feet of a dominant woman to whom he would avow love, and visiting professional sex workers to whom he would also confess love.

By his mid-twenties, he was routinely acting out on these fantasies. Again, if he did not act out his sexual fantasies, he would become very uncomfortable and would be unable to focus on anything except playing music during the day. When the Internet became available, he started spending multiple hours each day surfing the net, looking for fetishistic images to which he would masturbate. Stating that he was never interested in "fucking real women", he was eager to view websites that featured feet, legs, stockings, heels and dominatrixes.

When he would begin a romantic/sexual relationship with a woman, he would vow to stop acting out with aberrant sex to devote his attention to the girlfriend. He could, however, never bring himself to tell the "real girlfriend" he loved her. Within a few months after he began a relationship, he would lose sexual interest in his partner and the relationship would fall apart.

At some point, he started using telephone sex services. He would enjoy having elaborate fantasy relationships with the workers and would often "fall in love" with one of them. When he had "maxed out" his credit cards, he applied for new ones and then ran them up their limits. He got behind in the rent, and the power company threatened to cut him off unless he paid his bill. Socially isolated, deeply in debt, and about to lose his job, Steve realized his preoccupation with sex was ruining his life, but he felt powerless to change his behavior. Moreover, he was fighting the urge to visit a dominatrix/transvestite which he felt was a significant increase in the level of deviance he required to achieve sexual satisfaction.

He also was beginning to sense that pornography and phone sex no longer excited him as much as they used to. Increased levels of novelty, excitement and risk were required to achieve orgasm. At the same time he had met a woman whom he greatly admired, but for whom he had no sexual feelings despite her very real physical attractiveness. When he lost interest in her sexually and episodes of emotional intimacy would provoke anxiety, he began to examine his relationship patterns. Fearful that he was perpetuating his life-long pattern of not being able to be sexual or to have loving feelings for a real woman, he was concerned that yet another relationship would painfully fall apart. This, combined with persistent job jeopardy and chronic debt, propelled him into treatment.

Personal History

Steve was the youngest child in the family, with a sister who was five years his senior.

His sister was a bit sadistic, tormenting him with teasing when he began to develop sexually. He relayed an incident wherein he had given an ID bracelet to a girlfriend and his sister confronted him about the missing bracelet at the dinner table which incited fear in him about his projection of his mother's enmeshed and hysterical reaction.

His mother, it seemed, was the stereotypical "Jewish mother." She was adamant that he not see girls who were not Jewish (and most of his girlfriends were not). When starting treatment, Steve relayed that he had a very "loving" relationship with his mother. She would tell him that she loved him "every 10 seconds" and would incur his guilt about abandoning her whenever he made an effort to explore his interest in girls. As treatment proceeded, he began to realize that a fear of engulfment was an underlying factor about his anxiety about true intimacy and was able to connect this to his relationship to a mother who was too insecure to allow him to become his own person. He spent his childhood feeling that he could not retain a sense of himself and still maintain his relationship to mother, whom he put on a pedestal. Unable to risk his mother's emotionally abandoning him, he clocked himself in an armor of a "false self", which was a people-pleasing self. Constantly seeking validation from the outside, sexual approvable and acceptance from sex workers made him feel real, vital and alive. It defined his identity.

His love and need for mother represented a conflict for him. At some point, he began to realize how emotionally arbitrary his mother was. He could never trust her telling him that she loved him "every 10 seconds" because she would act differently from one moment to the next, giving Steve mixed messages. What disturbed him most as a child were his mother's rage attacks, which were unpredictable and could be triggered by almost anything. Inevitably, whenever Steve would make an attempt to appropriately separate from family, his mother would rage about an unrelated event. He sometimes would feel "crazy" by his mother's enmeshment and abandonment patterns.

Steve's father worked in the hardware store that his father (Steve's grandfather) had started and had successfully run until he sold it to cover his gambling debts. Steve's father had intended to save his money and eventually either to buy out the hardware store's current owner or else to open his own store. After many years, however, he was still working for little more than minimum wage, while the store's owner would regularly rebuke him for not having his father's knack for hardware. Steve's father was not ready to be a father when Steve was born. Steve understood that his father was planning on leaving his mother but could not bring himself to leave her with two small children. Steve came to blame himself for being responsible for holding his father in a marriage he did not want to be in. Later he realized that his father would not have had the guts to leave. Steve noted that his father never stood up for himself or for his family, and that he never stood up to Steve's mother. While his mother held Steve up on a pedestal, she, at the same time, demoralized his father with her constant belittling about his failure as a man.

Steve's father died from a heart attack when he was 13. Steve felt nothing about the loss and when he went back to school he never told anyone about it.. About a year later, his mother was hit and killed by a bus after Steve asked her if she could walk the dog as a favor to him. He had wanted to stay home to look at internet porn and masturbate.

Extremes of parental depravation or indulgence have devastating effects on a child, and it is not surprising to find this dynamic in the backgrounds of many sexual compulsives.

In addition, he had a weak connection to a vulnerable father to whom he felt a guilt-inducing tie for "holding" him to a torturous marriage to a woman who loathed and belittled his manhood. There was no port in the storm for Steve; no sustaining environment where Steve could develop an arsenal of task -orienting coping strategies. Nor did he have any social connections that could have compensated for the lack of balance and consistency required for the development of a solid, adequate sense of self. Like many sexual compulsives, he sexualized his family-of-origin conflicts and developed an internal "split" to abide an unbearable childhood psychic reality.

As an adult, he felt he lived in two worlds - not unlike a Dr. Jekyll and Mr. Hyde syndrome. There was a vacillating connection between fetishistic love objects in his fantasy world where he could express none- threatening love feelings and "real" women who were his companions and intellectual equals, although he held no erotic feelings for them. He could remain alive and vital enough to succeed at a competitive career in the music industry by remaining in a dissociated "erotic haze" which served to regulate the amount of intimacy he could tolerate. The sexually compulsive person therefore frequently alternates between the isolated and anxious clinging to both the "fantasy" love object with whom he feels safe but dehumanized, demoralized and fraudulent, and the "real" woman with whom he feels emotionally vulnerable, terrified of engulfment and de-erotized.

In addition to a lack of self care and the repetitive, impulsive choices that result in damaging consequences to the self, the person enslaved by compulsive sexuality is ill- equipped to value, comfort, soothe, and care for his authentic self. Indeed, he has no authentic self because he has never separated from his family-of-origin. The lack of care and nurturing from a mother who only saw him as a "need-supplying object" for herself is his basic trauma and is acted out sexually as an adult.

With this case in mind, let us pick out specifically what makes for a description of a sexually compulsive person.

Compulsive Sexuality
Solidifies his identity
Feels shameful
Is illicit, stolen, or exploitive
Compromises values
Draws on fear for excitement
Reenacts childhood traumas
Disconnects one from oneself
Creates a world of unreality and fantasy
Is self-destructive and dangerous
Uses conquest or power
Serves to medicate and kill pain
Is dishonest
Requires a double life
Is grim and joyless
Demands perfection
Mistakes intensity for intimacy
Requires novelty - intensity always has to be more than the last "hit"
Gives way to self-hatred, loneliness and despair.
Has no sexual "boundaries"
Uses false intimacy as a way to avoid relational pain
Preoccupation and ritualizations
Is "doing to" someone
Is devoid of communication
Has no limits
Benefits one person
Is an uncontrollable energy
Is emotionally distant
Other considerations

-Behavior leads to increasingly negative consequences but addict unable to control acting out
-Denial of the behavior's seriousness.
-Is the product of intense, unmet needs, coupled with the demand for perfect fulfillment and control of relational pain.
-Demands that life provides an illusion of reassurance and predictability by getting self-centered physiological relief.
-Is always a narcissistic endeavor - people are seen as "need-supplying objects", not as real human beings; more interested in getting than giving.
-Is ephemeral - physical orgasm provides a welcome rush of adrenaline, but by itself can only offer the brief illusion of intimacy and belonging.
-Sex is a conquest and abates the terrifying sense of not belonging.
-Sexual fantasy conjures up a perfect world of nourishment, love, generosity and tenderness.
-Are trapped in the paradox of being terrified of loneliness even as they act in ways that create further loneliness.
-In fantasy sex, have the freedom to be vulnerable and nurtured without fear. At it's core, sexual fantasy is a worship of self.
-Carry a sense of parental betrayal; parents unable to provide a positive role model of healthy intimacy.
-Have no ability to regulate their emotions from within.
-Risk relationships, financial loss, job jeopardy and physical safety.
-Possesses a set of irrational cognitive distortions, including "Sex is my most important need"; "I am basically a bad, worthless person; no one could love me as I am;" "My needs are never going to be met if I depend on others;" "I am valuable only if I am sexualized; being sexually desired makes me feel alive;" (Patrick Carnes, Out of the Shadows: Understanding Sex Addiction)
-Have deficits in the areas of social skills, interpersonal communication, stress control, anger management and empathy for others.
-Learned in childhood that feelings are dangerous, so learned how to mask their feelings, even from themselves.
-Sexual addiction is not a moral issue; it is a coping mechanism born from childhood wounding.

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We all want to have fun with the people we meet and the best way to achieve this is by adhering to good old-fashioned manners. Here are some swinger etiquette rules to live by to be sure you have the best time possible and that you'll be invited to the next party:


  • Always arrive at the party on time. Being punctual is more important at swinger parties than at most other social gatherings. If you are running behind, call and let the host know that you will be late so they can go ahead and start the party while waiting for you.


  • Arrive at and leave the party as a couple. Unless prior arrangements have been made with the host beforehand, arrive and leave the party as a couple. It is frowned upon by most hosts and other swingers at the party to leave his/her partner at the party as a single.


  • Follow parking instructions. The hosts know what they need to do to stay on good terms with surrounding neighbors, and this includes making parking arrangements. Wrongful parking and blocking traffic is not only illegal, but a good way to set the neighbors off and dissolve any good terms they previously had with the hosts.


  • Do not bring valuables. Always keep money, jewelry, and other valuables to a minimum.


  • Come clean and fresh. Take a shower, brush your teeth, shave, clip and clean your fingernails, and take care of any other personal hygiene items that need to be done. If you turn up a mess, it is not likely that you will be invited to the next party.


  • Follow the host's rules. Rules are meant for each and everyone at the party to follow to unsure that everyone will have a great time.


  • Don't be a bedroom "cruiser". If you need to open a door to see if there is a bed available for you to use, do it quietly. Do not disturb the swinging enjoyment of others by talking loudly, entering another activity without an invitation, or watching without consent. These actions are considered rude and offensive. Pulling back curtains, turning lights on, and going into private swing areas to see if you can get involved are major breaches of swinging etiquette.


  • Never bring illegal drugs and or substances. This is not only violating a basic rule of swinging etiquette, but you will subject yourself, other guests, and the hosts to prosecution for possession of illegal drugs.


  • Drink alcohol wisely. If a party is BYOB (bring your own booze), only consume what you bring. Only drink as much as your body can handle. Nothing is more disgusting than having to clean up the mess if you drink too much. It's also very embarrassing if you can't perform when sex is called for!


  • Do not eat, drink, or smoke in any non-designated area. This will not only affect others at the party, but it will also create a mess and more importantly, a fire hazard. This is one of the most violated rules of swinging etiquette, and one of the most likely to make you an unwelcome guest.


  • Do not take pictures. Taking pictures at a party can arouse strong opinions and feelings, so make sure you have specific approval from each guest before you point your camera, or else your Kodak moment might become a catastrophe.


  • Do not gossip. Do not to talk about anyone who is not present at the party. If you are discussing an experience that you were displeased with, do not talk about those who were involved in a depreciating manner. This will only cause those listening to wonder what you say about them when they're not around.


  • Do not overstay your welcome. Younger guests, especially those without children, have a tendency to hang around until dawn. Even though your hosts have gone through a lot of trouble to show you a great time, they may not always be complimented by your staying all night. If over half of the guests have left the party and you have not been specifically invited to stay longer, take that as a hint and leave.
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    We all want to have fun with the people we meet and the best way to achieve this is by adhering to good old-fashioned manners. Here are some swinger etiquette rules to live by to be sure you have the best time possible and that you'll be invited to the next party:


  • Always arrive at the party on time. Being punctual is more important at swinger parties than at most other social gatherings. If you are running behind, call and let the host know that you will be late so they can go ahead and start the party while waiting for you.


  • Arrive at and leave the party as a couple. Unless prior arrangements have been made with the host beforehand, arrive and leave the party as a couple. It is frowned upon by most hosts and other swingers at the party to leave his/her partner at the party as a single.


  • Follow parking instructions. The hosts know what they need to do to stay on good terms with surrounding neighbors, and this includes making parking arrangements. Wrongful parking and blocking traffic is not only illegal, but a good way to set the neighbors off and dissolve any good terms they previously had with the hosts.


  • Do not bring valuables. Always keep money, jewelry, and other valuables to a minimum.


  • Come clean and fresh. Take a shower, brush your teeth, shave, clip and clean your fingernails, and take care of any other personal hygiene items that need to be done. If you turn up a mess, it is not likely that you will be invited to the next party.


  • Follow the host's rules. Rules are meant for each and everyone at the party to follow to unsure that everyone will have a great time.


  • Don't be a bedroom "cruiser". If you need to open a door to see if there is a bed available for you to use, do it quietly. Do not disturb the swinging enjoyment of others by talking loudly, entering another activity without an invitation, or watching without consent. These actions are considered rude and offensive. Pulling back curtains, turning lights on, and going into private swing areas to see if you can get involved are major breaches of swinging etiquette.


  • Never bring illegal drugs and or substances. This is not only violating a basic rule of swinging etiquette, but you will subject yourself, other guests, and the hosts to prosecution for possession of illegal drugs.


  • Drink alcohol wisely. If a party is BYOB (bring your own booze), only consume what you bring. Only drink as much as your body can handle. Nothing is more disgusting than having to clean up the mess if you drink too much. It's also very embarrassing if you can't perform when sex is called for!


  • Do not eat, drink, or smoke in any non-designated area. This will not only affect others at the party, but it will also create a mess and more importantly, a fire hazard. This is one of the most violated rules of swinging etiquette, and one of the most likely to make you an unwelcome guest.


  • Do not take pictures. Taking pictures at a party can arouse strong opinions and feelings, so make sure you have specific approval from each guest before you point your camera, or else your Kodak moment might become a catastrophe.


  • Do not gossip. Do not to talk about anyone who is not present at the party. If you are discussing an experience that you were displeased with, do not talk about those who were involved in a depreciating manner. This will only cause those listening to wonder what you say about them when they're not around.


  • Do not overstay your welcome. Younger guests, especially those without children, have a tendency to hang around until dawn. Even though your hosts have gone through a lot of trouble to show you a great time, they may not always be complimented by your staying all night. If over half of the guests have left the party and you have not been specifically invited to stay longer, take that as a hint and leave.

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    When you hear that an experienced sex surrogate partner is inviting you to learn about intimacy, compassion and sensual caring, what does that really mean? What is a sex surrogate?

    By definition a sexual surrogate, or surrogate partner, is a professional who helps clients overcome sexual dysfunction. Most surrogates are women, a few are men and there are also married couples that practice surrogacy together. The general term of sexual surrogacy can involve varying levels of practice. Some surrogates work at counseling centers while others have their own office. Some surrogates offer additional services besides surrogacy such as telephone counseling or sexological bodywork.

    The majority of surrogates you meet will have a strong educational background and legitimate credentials, dealing with sexuality, psychology and counseling. Surrogates should always be certified in their practices; this allows them to work closely with psychiatrists, psychologists, sexologists and therapists in the best interests of the client.

    [Note: Throughout this text, the client is referred to as male. Though single men do make up the majority of surrogate clients, there are also female clients and married couples who seek out surrogacy solutions together.]

    Indeed, there is a science to help sexual dysfunction. The cure is beyond just listening to a client's problems, beyond explaining the solutions, and certainly beyond sexual intimacy. A skilled sex surrogate knows that a combination of all three factors--that is talking, listening and demonstration--are necessary to truly help resolve a client's sexual problems beyond just a quick counseling session.

    What kind of specific problems are we talking about? While a surrogate deals with many different types of cases in a year's time, there are many typical problems that come up. Some are psychological; men may have trouble with intimacy, a lack of confidence, communication problems with women in general, dating anxiety and sexual inhibitions. Others are physical dysfunctions that require more particular treatment, such as impotence, premature ejaculation, or an assortment of diseases that could cause painful intercourse. Sometimes there are people who have experienced a change in lifestyle due to a disability, and a surrogate can help them explore and develop sexual potential. The term of sexual dysfunction is very broad and what methods a surrogate might use to help improve sexual function are just as varied. Simply put, treatments must be decided upon on an individual basis by a therapist. What can cure one person of a particular sexual phobia might not help someone else. Surrogates know this and therefore must have very adept social and interpersonal skills.

    This is why surrogates work closely with sex therapists. Since many sexual problems are psychological rather than physical, communication pays a key role in the process. Not only between lovers, not only between a client and his sex surrogate, but also between the surrogate and the therapist.

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    First of all, sexual surrogacy is not just about sex as a device. If you try and meet a certified surrogate and fictionalize a sexual problem just for your own entertainment, you're not going to get very far. Sexual surrogacy is about sexual, physical and psychological health. Remember that surrogates work closely with therapists or psychologists, ensuring that the problem is corrected and that the client makes significant progress. Instead of providing a man with a date, as would an escort agency, a surrogate would help men improve their social and dating skills, if the therapist agreed there was a problem. But surrogacy is not a sex business--it's a field of study, a professional practice, a source of sexual education.

    On the other hand, sexual surrogacy would be more intense than just regular sexual coaching. Usually coaching, or other forms of adult advice, offers only head knowledge with no real resolution of the client's problem. Frankly, coaching seems appropriate for clients that just like to talk and are not quite ready to take appropriate steps to fix the problem. A sex surrogate, in accordance with a qualified therapist, would offer therapeutic exercises to help the client. This might include showing relaxation techniques, intimate communication, teaching social skills, and some sexual touching if the surrogate and therapist feel it's necessary.

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    Because your wife or girlfriend will be free to become as involved as she is comfortable with, visiting a swinger's club is ideal for her to explore the Swinging Lifestyle. There's no pressure to participate in any activities unless she wants to, and she can choose to just watch and or be watched. It's also a great opportunity to see for herself how couples in the Swinging Lifestyle treat their partners and how they interact with others. Here are a couple of tips to help you have a great night:

    • If this is your first time at a swing club go there to socialize, meet people and get comfortable. To minimize any pressure you may be feeling, go with minimal expectations of actually having sex with others. In general, most people do not wind up having sex with anyone their first time at a swing club. Couples who set high expectations when they first get started are often disappointed. If by mutual agreement things go further than you expect, then it will be a pleasant surprise.
    • Before you go your wife or girlfriend will probably fret a little over what to wear. Whatever she wears, your job is to reassure her and tell her she's beautiful. Even though it seems like such a simple thing, it can make all the difference in her confidence level.
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    • Tell others that you are new to swinging. There are lots of experienced couples who would he happy to show you some gentle loving and caring.
    • At the very least just plan to have a fun and adventurous time out in a sexually stimulating atmosphere and have great sex together afterwards!
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    We all want to have fun with the people we meet and the best way to achieve this is by adhering to good old-fashioned manners. Here are some swinger etiquette rules to live by to be sure you have the best time possible and that you'll be invited to the next party:


  • Always arrive at the party on time. Being punctual is more important at swinger parties than at most other social gatherings. If you are running behind, call and let the host know that you will be late so they can go ahead and start the party while waiting for you.


  • Arrive at and leave the party as a couple. Unless prior arrangements have been made with the host beforehand, arrive and leave the party as a couple. It is frowned upon by most hosts and other swingers at the party to leave his/her partner at the party as a single.


  • Follow parking instructions. The hosts know what they need to do to stay on good terms with surrounding neighbors, and this includes making parking arrangements. Wrongful parking and blocking traffic is not only illegal, but a good way to set the neighbors off and dissolve any good terms they previously had with the hosts.


  • Do not bring valuables. Always keep money, jewelry, and other valuables to a minimum.


  • Come clean and fresh. Take a shower, brush your teeth, shave, clip and clean your fingernails, and take care of any other personal hygiene items that need to be done. If you turn up a mess, it is not likely that you will be invited to the next party.


  • Follow the host's rules. Rules are meant for each and everyone at the party to follow to unsure that everyone will have a great time.


  • Don't be a bedroom "cruiser". If you need to open a door to see if there is a bed available for you to use, do it quietly. Do not disturb the swinging enjoyment of others by talking loudly, entering another activity without an invitation, or watching without consent. These actions are considered rude and offensive. Pulling back curtains, turning lights on, and going into private swing areas to see if you can get involved are major breaches of swinging etiquette.


  • Never bring illegal drugs and or substances. This is not only violating a basic rule of swinging etiquette, but you will subject yourself, other guests, and the hosts to prosecution for possession of illegal drugs.


  • Drink alcohol wisely. If a party is BYOB (bring your own booze), only consume what you bring. Only drink as much as your body can handle. Nothing is more disgusting than having to clean up the mess if you drink too much. It's also very embarrassing if you can't perform when sex is called for!


  • Do not eat, drink, or smoke in any non-designated area. This will not only affect others at the party, but it will also create a mess and more importantly, a fire hazard. This is one of the most violated rules of swinging etiquette, and one of the most likely to make you an unwelcome guest.


  • Do not take pictures. Taking pictures at a party can arouse strong opinions and feelings, so make sure you have specific approval from each guest before you point your camera, or else your Kodak moment might become a catastrophe.


  • Do not gossip. Do not to talk about anyone who is not present at the party. If you are discussing an experience that you were displeased with, do not talk about those who were involved in a depreciating manner. This will only cause those listening to wonder what you say about them when they're not around.


  • Do not overstay your welcome. Younger guests, especially those without children, have a tendency to hang around until dawn. Even though your hosts have gone through a lot of trouble to show you a great time, they may not always be complimented by your staying all night. If over half of the guests have left the party and you have not been specifically invited to stay longer, take that as a hint and leave.
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    Steve is a professional musician. A man in his 50's, virile yet sensitive, he is sexually compulsive around fetishistic sex. Since his early teens, Steve had masturbated nearly every night before going to sleep. As he matured, his need for masturbation increased until he was masturbated five or six times a day. He found that if he did not act on these urges, he would remain "horny" all day, which would make him restless, distracted, and irritable. When asked about his masturbatory fantasies, he related that they centered on feet, stockings, worshiping at the feet of a dominant woman to whom he would avow love, and visiting professional sex workers to whom he would also confess love.

    By his mid-twenties, he was routinely acting out on these fantasies. Again, if he did not act out his sexual fantasies, he would become very uncomfortable and would be unable to focus on anything except playing music during the day. When the Internet became available, he started spending multiple hours each day surfing the net, looking for fetishistic images to which he would masturbate. Stating that he was never interested in "fucking real women", he was eager to view websites that featured feet, legs, stockings, heels and dominatrixes.

    When he would begin a romantic/sexual relationship with a woman, he would vow to stop acting out with aberrant sex to devote his attention to the girlfriend. He could, however, never bring himself to tell the "real girlfriend" he loved her. Within a few months after he began a relationship, he would lose sexual interest in his partner and the relationship would fall apart.

    At some point, he started using telephone sex services. He would enjoy having elaborate fantasy relationships with the workers and would often "fall in love" with one of them. When he had "maxed out" his credit cards, he applied for new ones and then ran them up their limits. He got behind in the rent, and the power company threatened to cut him off unless he paid his bill. Socially isolated, deeply in debt, and about to lose his job, Steve realized his preoccupation with sex was ruining his life, but he felt powerless to change his behavior. Moreover, he was fighting the urge to visit a dominatrix/transvestite which he felt was a significant increase in the level of deviance he required to achieve sexual satisfaction.

    He also was beginning to sense that pornography and phone sex no longer excited him as much as they used to. Increased levels of novelty, excitement and risk were required to achieve orgasm. At the same time he had met a woman whom he greatly admired, but for whom he had no sexual feelings despite her very real physical attractiveness. When he lost interest in her sexually and episodes of emotional intimacy would provoke anxiety, he began to examine his relationship patterns. Fearful that he was perpetuating his life-long pattern of not being able to be sexual or to have loving feelings for a real woman, he was concerned that yet another relationship would painfully fall apart. This, combined with persistent job jeopardy and chronic debt, propelled him into treatment.

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    Steve was the youngest child in the family, with a sister who was five years his senior.

    His sister was a bit sadistic, tormenting him with teasing when he began to develop sexually. He relayed an incident wherein he had given an ID bracelet to a girlfriend and his sister confronted him about the missing bracelet at the dinner table which incited fear in him about his projection of his mother's enmeshed and hysterical reaction.

    His mother, it seemed, was the stereotypical "Jewish mother." She was adamant that he not see girls who were not Jewish (and most of his girlfriends were not). When starting treatment, Steve relayed that he had a very "loving" relationship with his mother. She would tell him that she loved him "every 10 seconds" and would incur his guilt about abandoning her whenever he made an effort to explore his interest in girls. As treatment proceeded, he began to realize that a fear of engulfment was an underlying factor about his anxiety about true intimacy and was able to connect this to his relationship to a mother who was too insecure to allow him to become his own person. He spent his childhood feeling that he could not retain a sense of himself and still maintain his relationship to mother, whom he put on a pedestal. Unable to risk his mother's emotionally abandoning him, he clocked himself in an armor of a "false self", which was a people-pleasing self. Constantly seeking validation from the outside, sexual approvable and acceptance from sex workers made him feel real, vital and alive. It defined his identity.

    His love and need for mother represented a conflict for him. At some point, he began to realize how emotionally arbitrary his mother was. He could never trust her telling him that she loved him "every 10 seconds" because she would act differently from one moment to the next, giving Steve mixed messages. What disturbed him most as a child were his mother's rage attacks, which were unpredictable and could be triggered by almost anything. Inevitably, whenever Steve would make an attempt to appropriately separate from family, his mother would rage about an unrelated event. He sometimes would feel "crazy" by his mother's enmeshment and abandonment patterns.

    Steve's father worked in the hardware store that his father (Steve's grandfather) had started and had successfully run until he sold it to cover his gambling debts. Steve's father had intended to save his money and eventually either to buy out the hardware store's current owner or else to open his own store. After many years, however, he was still working for little more than minimum wage, while the store's owner would regularly rebuke him for not having his father's knack for hardware. Steve's father was not ready to be a father when Steve was born. Steve understood that his father was planning on leaving his mother but could not bring himself to leave her with two small children. Steve came to blame himself for being responsible for holding his father in a marriage he did not want to be in. Later he realized that his father would not have had the guts to leave. Steve noted that his father never stood up for himself or for his family, and that he never stood up to Steve's mother. While his mother held Steve up on a pedestal, she, at the same time, demoralized his father with her constant belittling about his failure as a man.

    Steve's father died from a heart attack when he was 13. Steve felt nothing about the loss and when he went back to school he never told anyone about it.. About a year later, his mother was hit and killed by a bus after Steve asked her if she could walk the dog as a favor to him. He had wanted to stay home to look at internet porn and masturbate.

    Extremes of parental depravation or indulgence have devastating effects on a child, and it is not surprising to find this dynamic in the backgrounds of many sexual compulsives.

    In addition, he had a weak connection to a vulnerable father to whom he felt a guilt-inducing tie for "holding" him to a torturous marriage to a woman who loathed and belittled his manhood. There was no port in the storm for Steve; no sustaining environment where Steve could develop an arsenal of task -orienting coping strategies. Nor did he have any social connections that could have compensated for the lack of balance and consistency required for the development of a solid, adequate sense of self. Like many sexual compulsives, he sexualized his family-of-origin conflicts and developed an internal "split" to abide an unbearable childhood psychic reality.

    As an adult, he felt he lived in two worlds - not unlike a Dr. Jekyll and Mr. Hyde syndrome. There was a vacillating connection between fetishistic love objects in his fantasy world where he could express none- threatening love feelings and "real" women who were his companions and intellectual equals, although he held no erotic feelings for them. He could remain alive and vital enough to succeed at a competitive career in the music industry by remaining in a dissociated "erotic haze" which served to regulate the amount of intimacy he could tolerate. The sexually compulsive person therefore frequently alternates between the isolated and anxious clinging to both the "fantasy" love object with whom he feels safe but dehumanized, demoralized and fraudulent, and the "real" woman with whom he feels emotionally vulnerable, terrified of engulfment and de-erotized.

    In addition to a lack of self care and the repetitive, impulsive choices that result in damaging consequences to the self, the person enslaved by compulsive sexuality is ill- equipped to value, comfort, soothe, and care for his authentic self. Indeed, he has no authentic self because he has never separated from his family-of-origin. The lack of care and nurturing from a mother who only saw him as a "need-supplying object" for herself is his basic trauma and is acted out sexually as an adult.

    With this case in mind, let us pick out specifically what makes for a description of a sexually compulsive person.

    Compulsive Sexuality
    Solidifies his identity
    Feels shameful
    Is illicit, stolen, or exploitive
    Compromises values
    Draws on fear for excitement
    Reenacts childhood traumas
    Disconnects one from oneself
    Creates a world of unreality and fantasy
    Is self-destructive and dangerous
    Uses conquest or power
    Serves to medicate and kill pain
    Is dishonest
    Requires a double life
    Is grim and joyless
    Demands perfection
    Mistakes intensity for intimacy
    Requires novelty - intensity always has to be more than the last "hit"
    Gives way to self-hatred, loneliness and despair.
    Has no sexual "boundaries"
    Uses false intimacy as a way to avoid relational pain
    Preoccupation and ritualizations
    Is "doing to" someone
    Is devoid of communication
    Has no limits
    Benefits one person
    Is an uncontrollable energy
    Is emotionally distant
    Other considerations

    -Behavior leads to increasingly negative consequences but addict unable to control acting out
    -Denial of the behavior's seriousness.
    -Is the product of intense, unmet needs, coupled with the demand for perfect fulfillment and control of relational pain.
    -Demands that life provides an illusion of reassurance and predictability by getting self-centered physiological relief.
    -Is always a narcissistic endeavor - people are seen as "need-supplying objects", not as real human beings; more interested in getting than giving.
    -Is ephemeral - physical orgasm provides a welcome rush of adrenaline, but by itself can only offer the brief illusion of intimacy and belonging.
    -Sex is a conquest and abates the terrifying sense of not belonging.
    -Sexual fantasy conjures up a perfect world of nourishment, love, generosity and tenderness.
    -Are trapped in the paradox of being terrified of loneliness even as they act in ways that create further loneliness.
    -In fantasy sex, have the freedom to be vulnerable and nurtured without fear. At it's core, sexual fantasy is a worship of self.
    -Carry a sense of parental betrayal; parents unable to provide a positive role model of healthy intimacy.
    -Have no ability to regulate their emotions from within.
    -Risk relationships, financial loss, job jeopardy and physical safety.
    -Possesses a set of irrational cognitive distortions, including "Sex is my most important need"; "I am basically a bad, worthless person; no one could love me as I am;" "My needs are never going to be met if I depend on others;" "I am valuable only if I am sexualized; being sexually desired makes me feel alive;" (Patrick Carnes, Out of the Shadows: Understanding Sex Addiction)
    -Have deficits in the areas of social skills, interpersonal communication, stress control, anger management and empathy for others.
    -Learned in childhood that feelings are dangerous, so learned how to mask their feelings, even from themselves.
    -Sexual addiction is not a moral issue; it is a coping mechanism born from childhood wounding.


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    While it is painful to even think about, you’ve started to have this nagging suspicion in the back of your mind that your husband may be cheating on you with an escort in Runcorn . Whether he heads out late at night to run ambiguous errands, comes back home and immediately heads to the shower, or returns home appearing to have already showered at a different location — these are the signs that led you to believe your husband may be engaging in extramarital infidelity with a Runcorn escort.

    Escort Agencies

    What is important to know with this type of activity, in general, is that seeing an escort agency in Runcorn is not usually one of the first steps of extramarital infidelity. If your husband has been, in fact, seeing an escort — there is a good chance that he has a history of unfaithfulness to one degree or another. As an example, before man would visit a local Runcorn escort, it is likely that he has a history, generally a long history, with pornography in general. In addition to viewing pornography, there is also the chance that these men have used various websites, such as married but looking websites, adult chat rooms, escort websites, and so forth, before they have actually met up with an escort agency in Runcorn .

    However, because men who visit Runcorn escort agencies oftentimes have a long history of deviance from their marital vows, online infidelity investigation services can help to uncover both the types of websites that your husband has visited as well as potentially catching them trying to solicit an escort.

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    Opening a gentlemen's club takes a lot more than just having beautiful girls to grace the stage. Today's strip clubs are high caliber, eccentric cabarets, which combine fantasy, hospitality and sizzling entertainment. The media, as well as Hollywood have collectively worked into our conscious images of smoke filled, seedy joints, where gangsters and criminals gather. The industry has changed a lot since the 80s and 90s; and bar owners have discovered running a clean, friendly establishment makes their adult entertainment venues more attractive to both men and women alike. In fact, many of the best hotels along the Las Vegas strip now offer topless shows, complete with professional choreographed dances, topless revues and acrobats. The trend has caused traditional strip club owners across the country to offer great food, fantastic wine selections, and of course, top notch entertainment.

    Consider Location
    The very first think to considering how to open your strip club is to consider a location. In my opinion, it's a good idea to find a building which is close to expressways and major intersections. It's also wise to find a building which isn't too far away from hotels, restaurants and of course, convention centers. There is a good chance the community you chose to open your bar will frown upon a strip club in the area. This is why it's absolutely critical your club should offer clean, adult entertainment, with lots of hospitality. If you are lucky enough to open a club near other businesses, make sure to join the local chamber of commerce. Commit to being active in your towns community by attending local board meetings, making donations to local social causes, and by strictly adhering to the laws and regulations in your club's municipality.

    Girls
    A lot of new club owners wonder how to attract new dancers. My best advice is to not take financial advantage of the strippers. Many club owners try to charge their entertainers an unbelievable amount of money to work; and nickel and dime them for every little thing. Charge a house fee which is reasonable, and don't over fine the girls. The strip club industry is a very small world, and strippers are quick to share information about different places. Additionally, providing a fun, safe place to work will naturally increase the amount of exotic dancers on your roster. Try placing an ad on Craigslist or in your local paper for new entertainers. Another option is placing an employment page on your strip clubs website. It takes time, but after a while the amount of exotic dancers at your club will increase.

    Having your own strip club can be a lot of work. Like any other business, it takes planning and patience. Getting it off the ground may be difficult, but your goal should be figuring out how to make it thrive over the long haul. Done correctly, your new strip club can be a clean, exciting and highly profitable business for years to come.

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    All of us who have struggled with sexual addictions have had to face the reality of lost innocence. Whether we're recovering from addiction to pornography or other forms of sexual compulsion, a big part of recovery is facing the need to 'unlearn' our behavior. Maybe you need to quit so you can be truly intimate with your spouse, or just so you can confidently look yourself and others in the eye. Whatever the reason, until we can get all those terrible tempting thoughts under control, we will not be free of our sexual addictions. By understanding the sex drugs, getting sexual addiction help, and 'reprogramming' our sex drive, we can make great progress toward recovered innocence.

    Sexual Addictions Are Drug Addictions: Porn and sex addictions are probably the most difficult addictions known to mankind, or womankind, for that matter. This is because sexual addiction is drug addiction, but the drugs are free and available any time and anywhere. All you have to do is think sexual thoughts and the sex drugs begin to flow, driving you toward a climactic release of chemicals into the blood stream. Our bodies manufacture these drugs so we'll want to reproduce. Under natural circumstances, there is nothing wrong with this drive or these chemicals. We make this process unnatural when we reprogram our sex drives toward images, sexual body parts, promiscuity or even more destructive behaviors, like bestiality or pedophilia.

    Because of the chemicals involved, one of the symptoms of the addiction is developing affections for the objects of our sexual misbehavior. We chemically trick ourselves into believing we're expressing love. The addiction overpowers the normal sex drive, making natural lovemaking increasingly difficult, compelling us toward ever more deviant and destructive sexual behavior. When we understand pornography and sexual addictions are drug addictions, we're given a valuable tool for regaining control.

    Stop Using The Sex Drugs: Abstinence is as powerful a tool against porn and sex addictions as it is against alcoholism and drug addictions...there really is no difference, except availability. So, though it should be no surprise, it may shock you to learn that sexual abstinence for at least a year (sometimes 2-3 years) is necessary to defeat this addiction and regain some measure of sexual innocence. This means no normal sex, no porn, no masturbation...nothing. If you're like me, it may also mean giving up movies and TV with sex scenes, commercials with partially clothed people in them, magazines and even clothing catalogs if there are underwear or bathing suit pictures. Yes, it is possible! It's just not easy! Now, after years of controlling my impulses, I can have that stuff around and even watch TV and movies with little temptation...just have to look away during some scenes and commercials. How important is it to you to overcome this addiction?

    Get Help With Sexual Addiction: If recovery is important to you, getting help should be just as important. Yes, I know it's embarrassing. I've been embarrassed that way. Others will tell you what they learned in a book. I'm telling you what I learned by reading and practice, that helped me. One of the things that helped was being accountable to my wife and to others who didn't suffer from the same addiction. The power of sexual addiction is secrecy. If you reveal the secret, you leave no place for the addiction to hide. No, you don't have to advertise in the newspaper! Your spouse and one other trusted friend or counselor are usually enough as long as you're committed to being complete and honest. Failures (they will happen) need to be revealed to those you're accountable to. They should question you and forgive you as long as the frequency is decreasing. If we're dishonest or evasive about it or if the frequency is increasing, these friends should confront us strongly, to help us in the fight.

    Abstinence and helpful accountability are ways to keep from doing the sexual misbehavior we've already decided we won't do. Now, what do we do with all that time and all those thoughts we've encouraged over the years? This is where 'reprogramming' comes in.

    Reprogram Your Sex Drive: We thought we were just playing or engaging in fantasy, but reprogramming our sex drives took regular imagination, effort and commitment. To reprogram it to respond to the wrong behavior is easy, because the response produces an immediate reward in the form of sex drugs. Now, to reprogram our sex drives back to natural behavior requires a strong commitment and effort, with no tangible reward...just the satisfaction and self-esteem of having regained control of our bodies. How do we do this? In our minds!

    All sex happens in the brain! A couple thousand years ago, a guy by the name of Jeheshua said all we have to do is think about sex and we've engaged in sex. I know that makes most of us adulterers and worse, but it points to the power we need to overcome our addiction. The moment we have a sexual thought, the chemicals begin pumping...that's how pornography works, and why we need to control the images and ideas we get from the computer, books, movies, etc. Still, there are a lot of sexual thoughts already permanently in our brains. If we've taken the time to develop an addiction, these thoughts will pop up often. So, how do we fight those thoughts?

    When discussing my sexual addiction, a good friend told me, You can't keep a bird from landing on your head, but you can keep it from building a nest there." Reprogramming the sex drive involves chasing those birds away every time they land. We can build an arsenal of powerful good thoughts to replace the ones we're chasing away. We can pursue positive hobbies and activities that occupy our thoughts. We can listen to music, read uplifting books and volunteer our services to the community. We can collect memories and emotions we felt while looking at a tree, the sky, a waterfall, etc. These can be powerful tools to chase away sexually addictive thoughts. If you dwell on a thought, it gathers strength. If you push it out of your mind, it becomes weak. The more we force our minds to ignore sexual images and to focus on uplifting and positive thoughts, the more freedom we'll have from addiction. Those tempting images will happen less often and be far less powerful.

    Well, I didn't promise it would be easy, but it is possible to overcome sexual addictions and regain much of the innocence we once had. We need a strong commitment to abstain from sexual activity, be accountable to a trusted friend and to mentally push out those tempting thoughts and images. From personal experience, I can tell you, the rewards in self-confidence and a satisfying natural sex life make the battle worthwhile.

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    Sex online dating services are by far the most popular dating services on the internet at the moment. Hundreds of thousands of singles go out every weekend to hopefully find a partner to take home for a one night stand. A sex online dating service is a central hub for all these singles to meet without the need to go out looking for their catch.

    More singles are realizing the benefits of meeting someone online first. They want the safety of chatting to someone online first while they're sober, and in full control of their senses. Meeting someone online first after viewing their profile gives you an idea of what the person is like before you have to chat to them. Questions are answered for you before a word is spoken so you don't wonder why you started talking to them in the first place.

    The cost of meeting singles for sex online is a lot more value as well. A months subscription is less than one night out, and you have the chance of searching through thousands of profiles. That's more singles than you could meet in a whole year going down the club route. And you have the advantage of knowing all of the profiles are of singles that are already looking for sex. This can save a lot of time talking to someone all night only to find out they just want to be friends.

    The only disadvantage of meeting someone on the internet for sex is you can't just leave and go off somewhere. You have to make arrangements first. This is where you're safety is a lot better with meeting online for sex instead of a club or bar. A club or bar meeting can put you in a position that you can't get out of, and may regret later.

    There are plenty of reviews online for sex dating services. These services are so popular anyway that they must be doing something right. You will find thousands of singles looking for sex in your area if you live in or near a major city or state. Creating your profile will take you about 5 to 10 minutes. Then you have the chance of being contacted by the thousands of singles in your area. It could open up a whole new chapter in your life. It will be a big change from having the choice of a few singles at a club on a Saturday night.

    If you have a web cam you will be able to use it in the adult chat rooms at the sex dating web sites. These are the most popular chat rooms on the internet as well. The more imagination you have the more popular you will become.

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    Hundreds of people are of the opinion that massage services designed for men provide the perfect form of relaxation. While this is the fact, there are several other benefits tied to this service. These have a positive effect on health and also aids in boosting the sexual energy and especially when erotic massage is used. Before getting this type of service however, it is ideal to look at some of the benefits it offers.

    Relaxant

    When the service is delivered by a qualified masseuse, it can work perfectly as a relaxant. This is especially true if it is carried out in a therapeutic manner. It works by relaxing the muscles and as a result, it relieves muscle and joint pain. When selecting a masseur, it is advisable to settle with something who understands the process. This is important simply because they understand the stress points and as such, pay more attention on addressing these areas.

    They should be well versed with the action of rubbing and applying appropriate pressure in order to increase blood circulation around these stress joints. Once the tension is addressed, you end up feeling energized as well as rejuvenated. It is precisely due to these reasons that this type of services is encouraged.

    Avoid Disorders

    Through these services, it is also possible to get rid of certain types of disorders that are common among men. If the masseur has the ability to deliver an erotic massage, this means that they also have the ability to deliver a perineum one. The perineum is known as one of the most sensitive areas between the anus and genitalia. When this area is massaged, it becomes easier for men to attain excellent prostrate health. This tends to lean more on relaxation rather than arousing erotic feelings. When this area is stimulated the whole body becomes more relaxed. It lowers the blood pressure level and normalizes the heart rate. By regularly having this area addressed, you get rid of the possibility of suffering from disorders that affect male prostrate.

    For men who have an adventurous streak, these services also come in handy. This is because they deliver physical relief and they also make it possible for you to channel your sexual energy in the right place. There are different types of services to choose from and it is important to understand what you need as a man in order to increase your chances of getting the most out of these massage services. Through these services, it also becomes easier for men to satisfy their partners. This is because the stress points in the body that keep you from attaining your full potential are addresses.


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    While it is painful to even think about, you’ve started to have this nagging suspicion in the back of your mind that your husband may be cheating on you with an escort in Widnes . Whether he heads out late at night to run ambiguous errands, comes back home and immediately heads to the shower, or returns home appearing to have already showered at a different location — these are the signs that led you to believe your husband may be engaging in extramarital infidelity with a Widnes escort.

    Couples Escorts

    What is important to know with this type of activity, in general, is that seeing an escort agency in Widnes is not usually one of the first steps of extramarital infidelity. If your husband has been, in fact, seeing an escort — there is a good chance that he has a history of unfaithfulness to one degree or another. As an example, before man would visit a local Widnes escort, it is likely that he has a history, generally a long history, with pornography in general. In addition to viewing pornography, there is also the chance that these men have used various websites, such as married but looking websites, adult chat rooms, escort websites, and so forth, before they have actually met up with an escort agency in Widnes .

    However, because men who visit Widnes escort agencies oftentimes have a long history of deviance from their marital vows, online infidelity investigation services can help to uncover both the types of websites that your husband has visited as well as potentially catching them trying to solicit an escort.

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    Many swinging couples prefer to attend private house parties rather than going to a swinger club for their swinging experience. For each couple the reasons will be different, but here are a couple of benefits that private parties provide that swinger clubs do not:

    • By attending a private house party, it can offer a more discreet and relaxing environment for you and your partner to enjoy with other swinging couples. Because it is a more intimate setting than a swinger club, there will be fewer people, increasing your chances of meeting some really great people.
    • Many swinger club owners and staff are extremely busy and distracted during parties, especially during the weekends. If you do not know anyone else there, and you ask them to introduce you to other guests they may agree to do it, but this doesn't happen all the time. With so many people attending the club, their main focus is to make sure the club continues to run smoothly, so they might not take the time away from their busy schedule to introduce you. Private party hosts will always be happy to introduce you to other guests attending their party. Because the party is being held in a smaller and more intimate environment, they have the time and ability to make sure their main focus is for you to feel welcomed and comfortable. They want you to have an incredible night or else they would not have invited you in the first place!
    • One of the most common complaints swingers have about going to swinger clubs is the inability to really socialize with other swingers because the music is so loud. Because there are so many people, any request from a guest to lower the volume would not make a difference and would most likely be ignored. At a private party the volume of the music is considerably lower allowing couples to socialize more. If guests feel the music is too loud, the host will be much more responsive to any requests they make to turn it down.
    • The large amount of smoke in the club can also be very frustrating and uncomfortable for non-smokers. Most couples who host private parties in their homes either don't allow smoking inside the house at all, or they will have designated areas for smoking. For the most part, smoking is only done outside, usually by the pool or hot tub area.
    • To attend a private house party there will either be a minimal cost to enter or it will be free of charge. There are also no membership costs required in order to be admitted into a house party like a swinger club would require.
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    Now we all know that porn (referred to adult entertainment for the rest of this article J) gets a bad rap. We have to hide it in the back of cupboards, clear our internet history and deny all interest in it to our partners and especially our mums! Now I am talking purely about good, healthy sex and lovemaking here, mixed in with hot women and a bit of fantasy here and there. There is certainly plenty of bad stuff out there and I in no way at all condone it. Straight up stuff is fine with me and that's what I'm talking about!

    But what if there was a way that it could be justified, that viewing adult entertainment could be regarded as a selfless act and a true measure of mans continued journey to learn how to pleasure his lady? Imagine watching it for educational purposes and having your wife, girlfriend or partner look lovingly at you, smile and thank you for doing it as if you had just done all the washing and mowed the lawns while you were at it! This would be a wonderful world however I am sure by now, you see the humour and realise that this fantasy is as close to happening as us being involved in some of the plot lines in these films.

    So although, you will just about never be able to justify your interest in such films, this does not mean that from time to time you should not actually take the time out to watch these movies and clips from a different viewpoint.

    Put aside our male desire to see hot naked women going for it for all they are worth. Put aside the fantasy and imagination these films inspire in us and actually watch some of these movies from a technical observer's point of view. Sounds a bit weird but you would be surprised on how much you can actually take in and learn from watching the pro's do their stuff.

    Women absolutely love men that can take control in bed and know which buttons on the female body to press, when to press them and how to press them. For the man interested in improving his lovemaking and sexual prowess, this information can be gleaned from many an adult film. Take note of the individual techniques and methods used. Keep in mind how the women are touched and how they respond and more importantly pay particular attention to the way women touch themselves to get off. Oh and by the way, don't forget to spend plenty of time "researching" those lesbian scenes! If you are going to learn anything about how women like to be pleasured it will be by watching two women go for it! Hard work I know but try and get through it...

    Now you will have to take caution here and not rely just on the screams and moans! We all know how vocal these ladies can get and it will be up to you to determine what is real pleasure and what is fake. Good luck with that one!

    In conclusion, although you will never be able to justify to your wife or girlfriend that you are watching adult entertainment so you can learn how to pleasure them better, that is no reason why once in a while you shouldn't watch some for that very reason. You will improve your skills and feel better about yourself for doing so!

    So get out there and watch some porn! If you feel you are not getting it then by all means, keep watching it til you do - no one likes a quitter!

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    Now we all know that porn (referred to adult entertainment for the rest of this article J) gets a bad rap. We have to hide it in the back of cupboards, clear our internet history and deny all interest in it to our partners and especially our mums! Now I am talking purely about good, healthy sex and lovemaking here, mixed in with hot women and a bit of fantasy here and there. There is certainly plenty of bad stuff out there and I in no way at all condone it. Straight up stuff is fine with me and that's what I'm talking about!

    But what if there was a way that it could be justified, that viewing adult entertainment could be regarded as a selfless act and a true measure of mans continued journey to learn how to pleasure his lady? Imagine watching it for educational purposes and having your wife, girlfriend or partner look lovingly at you, smile and thank you for doing it as if you had just done all the washing and mowed the lawns while you were at it! This would be a wonderful world however I am sure by now, you see the humour and realise that this fantasy is as close to happening as us being involved in some of the plot lines in these films.

    So although, you will just about never be able to justify your interest in such films, this does not mean that from time to time you should not actually take the time out to watch these movies and clips from a different viewpoint.

    Put aside our male desire to see hot naked women going for it for all they are worth. Put aside the fantasy and imagination these films inspire in us and actually watch some of these movies from a technical observer's point of view. Sounds a bit weird but you would be surprised on how much you can actually take in and learn from watching the pro's do their stuff.

    Women absolutely love men that can take control in bed and know which buttons on the female body to press, when to press them and how to press them. For the man interested in improving his lovemaking and sexual prowess, this information can be gleaned from many an adult film. Take note of the individual techniques and methods used. Keep in mind how the women are touched and how they respond and more importantly pay particular attention to the way women touch themselves to get off. Oh and by the way, don't forget to spend plenty of time "researching" those lesbian scenes! If you are going to learn anything about how women like to be pleasured it will be by watching two women go for it! Hard work I know but try and get through it...

    Now you will have to take caution here and not rely just on the screams and moans! We all know how vocal these ladies can get and it will be up to you to determine what is real pleasure and what is fake. Good luck with that one!

    In conclusion, although you will never be able to justify to your wife or girlfriend that you are watching adult entertainment so you can learn how to pleasure them better, that is no reason why once in a while you shouldn't watch some for that very reason. You will improve your skills and feel better about yourself for doing so!

    So get out there and watch some porn! If you feel you are not getting it then by all means, keep watching it til you do - no one likes a quitter!

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    Being a lesbian is not that simple. Of course, some people do come out of the closet and lead a healthy happy life but it would be untrue to say that they do not face embarrassment or humiliation from time to time. Though the world accepts lesbians and gays today, it is still a bumpy road for those who dare to stand out. Many women, especially those with a high flying career and a social status they need to live up to, find it quite hard to start dating outrageously and find a suitable partner.

    For women who ca not walk up to other women in a bar and express their desire, lesbian online dating services is the perfect answer. Many women live through life wondering how to approach other women without attracting too much unwanted attention. It sure is a more comforting way to get to meet single women with the same sexual preferences right from home. If you are shy and like to maintain your privacy, lesbian online dating services is the right choice for you.

    For the more serious, established ladies who wish to date in order to find a life partner, there are many lesbian online dating services which offer matchmaking and virtual dates depending on the age, profession and preferences. They try and bring together women who are compatible, depending on the information they have filled out during creating their profile, and give you a chance at a real relationship.


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    While it is painful to even think about, you’ve started to have this nagging suspicion in the back of your mind that your husband may be cheating on you with an escort in Ellesmere Port . Whether he heads out late at night to run ambiguous errands, comes back home and immediately heads to the shower, or returns home appearing to have already showered at a different location — these are the signs that led you to believe your husband may be engaging in extramarital infidelity with a Ellesmere Port escort.

    Escort Agency

    What is important to know with this type of activity, in general, is that seeing an escort agency in Ellesmere Port is not usually one of the first steps of extramarital infidelity. If your husband has been, in fact, seeing an escort — there is a good chance that he has a history of unfaithfulness to one degree or another. As an example, before man would visit a local Ellesmere Port escort, it is likely that he has a history, generally a long history, with pornography in general. In addition to viewing pornography, there is also the chance that these men have used various websites, such as married but looking websites, adult chat rooms, escort websites, and so forth, before they have actually met up with an escort agency in Ellesmere Port .

    However, because men who visit Ellesmere Port escort agencies oftentimes have a long history of deviance from their marital vows, online infidelity investigation services can help to uncover both the types of websites that your husband has visited as well as potentially catching them trying to solicit an escort.

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    One characteristic of Jesus Christ is his willingness to serve. He spent his entire life serving the apostles and all those he came in contact with. Through the scriptures, his service has become much more far reaching, beyond the people he came in direct contact with. The stories that are told teach all of us why service is important. The scriptures are full of examples of how Christ served.

    Teaching is an important type of service. When Christ was just a boy, he was in the temple teaching men much older than himself. But this didn't bother the young Jesus. He didn't care how old or young someone was. He was, as the scriptures say "no respecter of persons." Along the same lines, Christ taught so much to the apostles and to us today when he washed the apostles' feet. What a humble act of service. This is a clear example that nothing is too small for us to do to help comfort or care for someone else. It's a great reminder that the small and simple things make a big impact.

    When Christ was hanging on the cross, he did two acts of service that teach volumes. First, he turned to one of the apostles and said "Behold thy Mother" He was making sure his mother would be taken care of even as he was preparing for his own death! And then just before he died, Christ asked God to forgive the thief. On death's doorstep, he was still concerned for the welfare of others. Both of the examples remind us how crucial it is to reach beyond ourselves to see the needs of others.

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    Aging should not hinder older adults and seniors from having an active and satisfying sex life. Contrary to what most people believe, sex is not just for young couples. Everyone desires to feel loved and receive affection. In fact, a lot of seniors continue to be sexually active even after 80 years old.

    According to recent studies, more and more seniors have reported an improved sex life as they age. While the body may not be as limber as it used to be, there are still a lot of ways you can have a fulfilling and enjoyable sex life. One must pay close attention and learn how to adapt to the changing needs of your body in order to make senior sex a little more pleasurable.

    Here are some tips to make senior sex more enjoyable and satisfying:

    Do not rush it. Take your time

    Our body changes as we age. Seniors who want to continue to be sexually active need to learn how to adapt to these changes. When it comes to becoming aroused, it still pays to be patient and to take your time. It is important to allow yourself and your partner to build the excitement. Snuggling, hugging, kissing, massaging, and caressing will help you set the mood. Remember not to rush it. Take time to create a romantic ambiance and allocate more time -lots of time for foreplay in order to make sexual intercourse more pleasurable. Remember, if you want to enjoy and be satisfied, do it nice and s-l-o-w.

    Communicate. Communicate. Communicate.

    Communication is key. The more you talk to one another, the easier it is for your partner to know your feelings, expectations and desires. Tell him or her what makes you feel good in order to make sex more satisfying and enjoyable. Your partner wants to please you as well, so he or she will listen to what you like. In most cases, talking about sex and foreplay can make you feel sexy and easily turned on. So speak up, don't be shy. Be direct.

    Explore and be creative

    Spice it up a notch by exploring more options that can help give you more pleasure like engaging in oral sex, masturbation, using sex toys and finding new intercourse positions. Be creative and experiment with different positions until you find the ones that will please you and your partner.

    Learn to adjust

    Because of the aging process, having sex can be challenging. This is due to all the physical, mental and emotional changes you go through. However, learning how to adapt to these changes will help make senior sex not only easier but also more enjoyable.

    Age-related changes are different for men and women. For senior men, erectile dysfunction may be a problem because of the decrease in hormone levels. If this is an issue, talk to your physician about erectile dysfunction or other erection problems to get advice and treatment. If medication is prescribed, it is important to ask about possible side effects that may affect not only your sexual relationship, but your body as well.

    For senior women, vaginal dryness may be an issue. If this is the case, don't worry. There is a wide-variety of over-the-counter water-based lubricants available for purchase, including those with different scents, flavors, colors, etc. Lubricants will help relieve vaginal dryness to make sexual intercourse more comfortable and pleasurable.

    Stay healthy and fit

    Eating healthy and exercising regularly are key ingredients that will help seniors look younger, feel better and enjoy life even more. Health and fitness can also help improve your sex life by giving you the strength you will need to last longer during sexual intercourse.

    Eat a balanced diet and include lots of fruits and vegetables in your meal. It is also important to limit your alcohol-intake as it may decrease sexual arousal. Based on research, too much alcohol may cause erectile problems for men and women may experience difficulty in reaching an orgasm.

    Check with your doctor

    Due to the aging process, there are a lot of things that can interfere with being sexually active. As you approach your golden years, you may experience more and more physical ailments like high blood pressure, heart disease, diabetes and other medical conditions, which can make you less interested in sex.

    Medications may interfere with sexual function as well. If sexual problems, including erectile dysfunction, arise due to these conditions, consult your doctor to receive proper medication. Be sure to discuss your medical condition, any prescription questions or possible medication side effects with your physician. It is advisable to take your partner when you talk to your doctor so you can both understand and learn how to resolve the your sexual circumstances together. By doing this, not only will the both of you become more understanding of each other's needs and limitations, but also sex and the relationship will become more meaningful and special.

    Keep that spark alive

    Spending quality time with your loved one is the best way to keep the spark alive. Try to set aside time for each other so you can do things together. Perhaps watch a movie, go out to a romantic dinner, plan a weekend getaway, or simply cuddle in bed. Try to remember the feeling when you first started dating and the things that made you fall in love with each other. These things will definitely help set the mood.

    As you get older, you need to be aware and ready to adapt to the changing needs of your bodies in order to make senior sex more satisfying and enjoyable. Remember, age should not be a hindrance to having an active and satisfying sex life.

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    Recovering from a sex addiction requires adhering to a 12 step program. Such programs have become synonymous with people's efforts to change their lives and behaviors, and have been applied to everything including over-eating, sex, compulsive gambling, and drug addiction.

    The original 12 step program was published by Alcoholics Anonymous in the late 1930s to treat addiction to alcohol. Since then, it has been adapted and directed towards other forms of addiction and compulsive behaviors and has been recognized by the American Psychological Foundation. Small details within each 12 step program change depending on what's being treated, but all follow the same template. While there is debate on what defines addiction, many agree that the brain becomes dependent on chemicals either imbibed (alcohol) or produced naturally through a behavior, such as sex or gambling.

    The 12 Steps:

    Step one is the sex addict admitting they have no power over their sex addiction and that their lives have gotten out of control. This step essentially defines a sex addiction, a situation where a person no longer can control their sexual behavior despite it causing them problems. This may sound facetious, but if a sex addict could control their behavior, they would not be an addict. Admitting powerlessness also opens the door to getting outside help. A person with a broken leg does not try to mend it on their own, they call a doctor because they do not have the skills to heal themselves. It is no different with a sex addiction.

    Step two is acknowledging there is a "higher power" that can help the addict with their addiction. This and the next step may be two of the least understood, as "higher power" generally refers to God. While many going through the 12 step program turn to the Christian faith, anything can serve as the higher power. A person can look to the sun, a favorite object, anything they can mentally equate with a power above themselves. Some neurologists have said the human brain is hardwired towards religion, and because of this it can be used as a powerful tool in influencing behavior.

    Prayer and meditation are Step 11 in the program. Many call prayer and meditation one and the same, but whichever route the sex addict chooses, they should set aside time each day for quiet reflection. A daily pause is used as an anchor to keep the complexities of the addict's outside world from becoming overwhelming. This step lets the sex addict remind themselves of their progress and the tools they have to fight their compulsions.

    The final step is working with other sex addicts, or passing on some of the knowledge the addict has gained. The selfless side of this is ensures a pool of experienced teachers well versed in the subject matter who can perpetuate the program. The benefit to the addict doing the teaching is the same as to teacher; the one imparting the wisdom in turn learns more about what they've come to know. Having to articulate to another person what one has learned makes a person think about benefits in ways they hadn't before, and leads to greater understanding.

    Those are the basic 12 steps found in addiction recovery programs. Many are closely related, but together they show a progression. It should be noted this programs not a "do these 12 things and you're cured" prescription, but at the higher levels are a lifelong set of behaviors. They may play a less active role in the recovering sex addict's life as time goes on, but the inventory, meditation, and teaching tend to be in the background for a long time.

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    Swinging has become more popular than ever in recent years thanks to technology and the internet. The days of placing ads in magazines or attending shady "key parties" are long gone! Most swingers- who are often called lifestyle members or members of the swinging lifestyle- typically meet one another online, in swingers clubs, on swingers cruises or at swinger parties.

    1. Finding other swingers online is one of the easiest ways to find new friends and partners. Couples and singles can place ads on various "dating" websites that are geared toward people in the swinging lifestyle. Single males often have more trouble making connections with couples than single females do simply because there are more unattached males in the swinging lifestyle than unattached females.

    2. Various swingers clubs are located in most large cities. They're usually similar to traditional night clubs, but there's a twist- people attending these clubs are swingers or interested in trying out the swinging lifestyle. Some clubs are simply a meeting place where swingers can dance, drink and have fun while others offer on-site play rooms for consenting adults.

    3. Swingers cruises are often arranged by travel agencies specializing in alternative lifestyles. These cruises may consist of a large group of lifestyle members that wish to take a vacation together and meet new swingers, or a "takeover" in which the entire cruise ship is reserved for lifestyle members. Some swingers reserve spots on these cruises with people they already know and others take the trip in hopes of meeting new people.

    4. Swinger parties are often held at clubs, but they can also be held in private homes or at hotels. Parties are a good way for swingers to connect with others and have fun. Some of these parties involve sexual activity while others are costume parties or themed parties.


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